Just for the record, this guide is for the guys who are ACTUALLY doing well in the game now but still get that feeling of emptiness. I have found certain things that can personally alleviate and even help fix the pain but the advice might center on being dark and very edgy.
This is ONLY for late bloomers that are hurt by the issue, not those that have no problems being late to the game.
For those of you who read Chris's post about college and felt that anger inside of you due to missing out and not getting any action/fun during those years, welcome to my thread. I know how that feeling is like, one in which you feel like you missed out on something big because you weren't the part of the college 20%. A feeling of knowing that you missed out on all of the fun, partying, hookups, and hedonism when so many people around your age were getting it. It fucking hurts guys, it really really does.
Even when you have made it, are sleeping with hot girls, and having that success; it just doesn't feel the same. Well, here is the guide to killing that sense of emptiness inside of you. A lot of what you read will be politically incorrect but, it is what it is. So far, it has worked for me.
You're missing the validation and that feeling of exclusiveness and superiority that the cool kids in college received. Now that we have identified the issue, we can fix it.
PLEASE FEEL FREE TO ADD TO THIS GUIDE IF YOU FEEL LIKE SOMETHING IS MISSING!!!!
SOME of these things on the list I have done, some I have known former late bloomers that have done and they are better for it.
Go to events and do things with hot girl(s). (have done!)
Wanna feel like the man? Go to a bar with a couple of hot girls by your arm. Perfect your game and value to where you are showing up to places with hot girls. As a matter of fact, bonus points if you go to a college reunion or some alumni meetup and bring some hot girls around, see the faces of some of the guys melt as they get fat and you are now the man.
I recently went to a meetup which involved some of my old college classmates. A couple of the douchebags I knew who did not invite me to their parties were there. I arrived there with a girl I am seeing right now, a brunette 8, and the eyes were on me. Other girls who ignored me in college were trying to chat with me and a couple of the douchebags who refused to allow me to hangout with them were now trying to chat with me and the girl, as she ignored them. Fulfilling feeling indeed, we both laughed about it afterwards.
Get the cool/fun side-gig if you can. (working on this!)
Now this is the toughest part of it all, especially for those of us who are now breaking into our careers. Whether it is bartender or club promoter, get that fun side-gig that results in you having status among hot girls. I cannot name any outside of bartender, model photographer, and club promoter but I am sure that there are others out there, get creative I guess? Pretty sure others here can chime in but the reality is, these side-gigs will be HIGHLY competitive. Being a bartender at a popular bar or night club in a big city is one of the most competitive jobs out there.
Social media is your friend from now on, YOU MUST BE ON IT. (am working on this and having some luck)
I know that this taboo exists towards social media but the truth is, social media IS the future. Social media is the ultimate way of saying "fuck you loser, my life is better than yours!".
Social media has made narcissism a new currency and you can't fight it, so join it. Remember, it is the narcissism and entitlement of the cool kids in college which made you miss out on all of the fun, now is your turn to show the world how far you have come. I know what I am saying is dark but we can be truthful here. If you've truly become better than a lot of the former cool kids from college, now is the time to remind yourself and even let the world know about it.
Went on a date with a hot girl? Throw it up on Instagram!
Went to that cool party with a few friends and some hot girls? Throw it up on Instagram!
Have that cool side gig? Let the world know about it on Instagram!
Looking good with those six pack abs? Selfie on Instagram!
Traveling to cool places with amazing people? On Instagram you go!
You're missing the validation so it is time to get it. Social media is the future, whether you like it or not. Throw the nice pics up on Instagram as the likes and comments come in. If you've built a good social life for yourself after college, you should be getting a decent amount of followers anyways.
Throw those pics on there, let those be the reminder of how far you have come.
Best of all, when people who knew you from the past say things such as "grow up", smile! Deep down inside, they wish they were getting hot girls at the age of 28 rather than getting married and starting a family. Let them hate and smile as they do so. I have a friend who was a former nerd, he is good on Instagram now, and it is funny to see the jealousy unfold.
Be the boss of you gets to be a part of your life, male or female, IF opportunity presents itself. (doing this)
Make no mistake about it, people from the past WILL take notice.
Douchebag that rejected you from his parties back in college? Nope! Find a way to tell him to get lost and make it obvious that this is now your ideal life, you decide who gets to be a part of it. I am facing the issue right now with some fake douche from back in college who now wants to "hang out" with me, not happening!
College slut that rejected you and now wants to be a part of your life? Nope! You can get girls just as hot as her now and she is not wanted.
It is very ideal if you throw a nice party and decide who gets to come to them and who doesn't but again, you would have to be Dan Bilzerian or Hugh Hefner in order to pull that off though but something to work towards right??
I feel great!
I feel like I now have a path out of my late bloomer woes. To be honest, I feel great about it because so many guys I knew from back in college who looked to be a part of the "20%" are now struggling in life. Some are married, some are lost in life, and some are lonely as hell. I have been receiving a few messages from former college 20% kids who are now wanting to be a part of my life, it feels great to kindly tell them "sorry, I am busy".
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This is ONLY for late bloomers that are hurt by the issue, not those that have no problems being late to the game.
For those of you who read Chris's post about college and felt that anger inside of you due to missing out and not getting any action/fun during those years, welcome to my thread. I know how that feeling is like, one in which you feel like you missed out on something big because you weren't the part of the college 20%. A feeling of knowing that you missed out on all of the fun, partying, hookups, and hedonism when so many people around your age were getting it. It fucking hurts guys, it really really does.
Even when you have made it, are sleeping with hot girls, and having that success; it just doesn't feel the same. Well, here is the guide to killing that sense of emptiness inside of you. A lot of what you read will be politically incorrect but, it is what it is. So far, it has worked for me.
You're missing the validation and that feeling of exclusiveness and superiority that the cool kids in college received. Now that we have identified the issue, we can fix it.
PLEASE FEEL FREE TO ADD TO THIS GUIDE IF YOU FEEL LIKE SOMETHING IS MISSING!!!!
SOME of these things on the list I have done, some I have known former late bloomers that have done and they are better for it.
Go to events and do things with hot girl(s). (have done!)
Wanna feel like the man? Go to a bar with a couple of hot girls by your arm. Perfect your game and value to where you are showing up to places with hot girls. As a matter of fact, bonus points if you go to a college reunion or some alumni meetup and bring some hot girls around, see the faces of some of the guys melt as they get fat and you are now the man.
I recently went to a meetup which involved some of my old college classmates. A couple of the douchebags I knew who did not invite me to their parties were there. I arrived there with a girl I am seeing right now, a brunette 8, and the eyes were on me. Other girls who ignored me in college were trying to chat with me and a couple of the douchebags who refused to allow me to hangout with them were now trying to chat with me and the girl, as she ignored them. Fulfilling feeling indeed, we both laughed about it afterwards.
Get the cool/fun side-gig if you can. (working on this!)
Now this is the toughest part of it all, especially for those of us who are now breaking into our careers. Whether it is bartender or club promoter, get that fun side-gig that results in you having status among hot girls. I cannot name any outside of bartender, model photographer, and club promoter but I am sure that there are others out there, get creative I guess? Pretty sure others here can chime in but the reality is, these side-gigs will be HIGHLY competitive. Being a bartender at a popular bar or night club in a big city is one of the most competitive jobs out there.
Social media is your friend from now on, YOU MUST BE ON IT. (am working on this and having some luck)
I know that this taboo exists towards social media but the truth is, social media IS the future. Social media is the ultimate way of saying "fuck you loser, my life is better than yours!".
Social media has made narcissism a new currency and you can't fight it, so join it. Remember, it is the narcissism and entitlement of the cool kids in college which made you miss out on all of the fun, now is your turn to show the world how far you have come. I know what I am saying is dark but we can be truthful here. If you've truly become better than a lot of the former cool kids from college, now is the time to remind yourself and even let the world know about it.
Went on a date with a hot girl? Throw it up on Instagram!
Went to that cool party with a few friends and some hot girls? Throw it up on Instagram!
Have that cool side gig? Let the world know about it on Instagram!
Looking good with those six pack abs? Selfie on Instagram!
Traveling to cool places with amazing people? On Instagram you go!
You're missing the validation so it is time to get it. Social media is the future, whether you like it or not. Throw the nice pics up on Instagram as the likes and comments come in. If you've built a good social life for yourself after college, you should be getting a decent amount of followers anyways.
Throw those pics on there, let those be the reminder of how far you have come.
Best of all, when people who knew you from the past say things such as "grow up", smile! Deep down inside, they wish they were getting hot girls at the age of 28 rather than getting married and starting a family. Let them hate and smile as they do so. I have a friend who was a former nerd, he is good on Instagram now, and it is funny to see the jealousy unfold.
Be the boss of you gets to be a part of your life, male or female, IF opportunity presents itself. (doing this)
Make no mistake about it, people from the past WILL take notice.
Douchebag that rejected you from his parties back in college? Nope! Find a way to tell him to get lost and make it obvious that this is now your ideal life, you decide who gets to be a part of it. I am facing the issue right now with some fake douche from back in college who now wants to "hang out" with me, not happening!
College slut that rejected you and now wants to be a part of your life? Nope! You can get girls just as hot as her now and she is not wanted.
It is very ideal if you throw a nice party and decide who gets to come to them and who doesn't but again, you would have to be Dan Bilzerian or Hugh Hefner in order to pull that off though but something to work towards right??
I feel great!
I feel like I now have a path out of my late bloomer woes. To be honest, I feel great about it because so many guys I knew from back in college who looked to be a part of the "20%" are now struggling in life. Some are married, some are lost in life, and some are lonely as hell. I have been receiving a few messages from former college 20% kids who are now wanting to be a part of my life, it feels great to kindly tell them "sorry, I am busy".
