Is there any point in trying to persist when youre a beginner and have approach anxiety?. For instance if a girl starts walking away I know I could stop her and tell her its impolite to walk away when someone's talkung to you, but to me thats a pretty clear sign that shes not interested. Similarly when a chick is making all these excuses not to meet me, I can keep countering them all but I feel like its pointless since persistence has never once paid off for me. The only thing I ever got from persistence was that I started dreading appraoches even more.
I know its meant to build character but Id like to Think I can tell from the first reaction whether the chick is interested or not. Thats why I feel like I should only be focusing on the positive reactions and yes-girls. After all,all the chicks I did get laid with so far were very straightforward. No convincing required.
So isn't it just a waste of time really to persist, wjen I could easily be moving onto the next one, play the numbers game and keep a more positive attitude like that. God knows Im depressed enough as it is.
Sorry for the errors im on my phone
I know its meant to build character but Id like to Think I can tell from the first reaction whether the chick is interested or not. Thats why I feel like I should only be focusing on the positive reactions and yes-girls. After all,all the chicks I did get laid with so far were very straightforward. No convincing required.
So isn't it just a waste of time really to persist, wjen I could easily be moving onto the next one, play the numbers game and keep a more positive attitude like that. God knows Im depressed enough as it is.
Sorry for the errors im on my phone