Firstly, I am pretty inexperienced sexually and am looking for a girlfriend with whom I can get more experienced.
This particular girl is about 6-7 in appearance and I would rate myself about 9. She is a cute, nerdy chick whom I met while standing in line at my community college's cafeteria. I recalled having seen her somewhere before that and that's what I used to start a conversation with her and she seemed pretty receptive. When I got out of the line, I went up to the table she was sitting in and asked it she would mind me sitting with her. We then talked a lot for the next 30 mins and found a lot in common. I guess I never made any sexual intent clear or complimented her on her appearance (I don't know if this is bad, but I intend to tell her she is really cute next time I meet her). Then she looked at the time and said she had to catch a bus. I asked for her number and she said sure we can talk again sometime and asked for mine and texted me immediately. I then asked what days she comes to school and if she had a lot of work for finals etc. She gave me the answers and said she really had to get going or she'll miss the bus. She said,"It was really nice to meet you" and left. Then in a few mins, I texted her,"Hope you didn't miss the bus". She replied that she didn't and that she made it just in time. I replied, "Great!" and haven't texted her since. That was on Thursday and I know that she next comes to school on Tuesday. So, how should I go about texting her now? Should I just text her setting up to meet for lunch again Sunday night (along with a bit of platitude about her weekend) or do I need to be texting her right now making small talk? I am not really good at texting and can't really think of funny stuff to say, but I fear if I wait untill Sunday night she might think I am a player and am trying to do the three-day rule. How do I go about this? It's gonna be the end of school year soon and I am really hoping to get someone before the summer (And its really frustrating not having gotten someone so far despite doing well on looks and social-status department). Any help would be appreciated.
This particular girl is about 6-7 in appearance and I would rate myself about 9. She is a cute, nerdy chick whom I met while standing in line at my community college's cafeteria. I recalled having seen her somewhere before that and that's what I used to start a conversation with her and she seemed pretty receptive. When I got out of the line, I went up to the table she was sitting in and asked it she would mind me sitting with her. We then talked a lot for the next 30 mins and found a lot in common. I guess I never made any sexual intent clear or complimented her on her appearance (I don't know if this is bad, but I intend to tell her she is really cute next time I meet her). Then she looked at the time and said she had to catch a bus. I asked for her number and she said sure we can talk again sometime and asked for mine and texted me immediately. I then asked what days she comes to school and if she had a lot of work for finals etc. She gave me the answers and said she really had to get going or she'll miss the bus. She said,"It was really nice to meet you" and left. Then in a few mins, I texted her,"Hope you didn't miss the bus". She replied that she didn't and that she made it just in time. I replied, "Great!" and haven't texted her since. That was on Thursday and I know that she next comes to school on Tuesday. So, how should I go about texting her now? Should I just text her setting up to meet for lunch again Sunday night (along with a bit of platitude about her weekend) or do I need to be texting her right now making small talk? I am not really good at texting and can't really think of funny stuff to say, but I fear if I wait untill Sunday night she might think I am a player and am trying to do the three-day rule. How do I go about this? It's gonna be the end of school year soon and I am really hoping to get someone before the summer (And its really frustrating not having gotten someone so far despite doing well on looks and social-status department). Any help would be appreciated.