Just got out of a bad 2yr relationship. I want to start the AA program ASAP and have been approaching girls in the meantime (just asking for the time) - however since breaking up I've been getting those "lonely feels" and my 'game' or whatever is quite rusty.
Also I am naturally a bit of a loner / I only have 2 really good friends. I don't have a "Crew" or easy ways to acquire social poof other than pictures with my ex which I assume is in bad taste.
Here are some general pics of me - I would use some in my profile but otherwise they where just to give you an idea of what I'm working with, had some better pics but my ex deleted em all, oh well.
imgur.com/a/LonkD
Okay so I will go through the quick list of pros:
- I'm 6'4"
- I'm white
- I'm Aussie and I've heard from many American guys that our women are super super loose which is true.
Now the cons:
- Pasty & ginger. Nothing I can do about this really, just have to somehow work it into my "personality"
- I'm fat. Got super lazy in my 2 yr relationship but I'm back to training hard at martial arts and also doing pull ups at home. I'm confident my weight will go down, the challenge will be going to the gym and martial arts at the same time. Martial arts will kill my fat - but need gym for upper body.
- I have no style. Absolutely 0 style, GLL will fix that, may be harder to find stuff in Aus, or I will just have to pay expensive shipping costs.
- No social proof. I don't go out with da boyz and when I do I generally look terrible in photos from being so pasty (club photo type stuff) only social proof atm is pics with my ex (to use or no?)
- No money. Well being australia the government gives me $250 a week and I can make another $200 in a weekend if I can be fucked.
I basically have 3 major questions:
1. How does one get good photos when they're a loner. Should I make it look like someone else took them or should I just wait till I get super ripped? Should I wait till I look better and get some pro photos? can you be succesful with just selfies?
2. What do I do about my style. What works on pale tall guys? Out of looks, style and game I think my style is definitely the weakest. Is there just a general rule I should follow? I think with some accessories it could work - but in Australia it's often very very hot - no jackets, rarely jeans.
3. Should I just go for the BF look for now? I mean like a nice shirt, glasses, look kind of rich and intelligent - it's pretty hard to look like a player when you're a ginger - I don't mind the BF look, honestly my ideal sex life would be rotating girls every 2-3 months (so only 4-5 girls a year) with some overlap. Not looking to break 100 or anything like - just want to get to 30 before I'm 30 (currently on 4 and 25yo)
Thanks for any help guys.
Also I am naturally a bit of a loner / I only have 2 really good friends. I don't have a "Crew" or easy ways to acquire social poof other than pictures with my ex which I assume is in bad taste.
Here are some general pics of me - I would use some in my profile but otherwise they where just to give you an idea of what I'm working with, had some better pics but my ex deleted em all, oh well.
imgur.com/a/LonkD
Okay so I will go through the quick list of pros:
- I'm 6'4"
- I'm white
- I'm Aussie and I've heard from many American guys that our women are super super loose which is true.
Now the cons:
- Pasty & ginger. Nothing I can do about this really, just have to somehow work it into my "personality"
- I'm fat. Got super lazy in my 2 yr relationship but I'm back to training hard at martial arts and also doing pull ups at home. I'm confident my weight will go down, the challenge will be going to the gym and martial arts at the same time. Martial arts will kill my fat - but need gym for upper body.
- I have no style. Absolutely 0 style, GLL will fix that, may be harder to find stuff in Aus, or I will just have to pay expensive shipping costs.
- No social proof. I don't go out with da boyz and when I do I generally look terrible in photos from being so pasty (club photo type stuff) only social proof atm is pics with my ex (to use or no?)
- No money. Well being australia the government gives me $250 a week and I can make another $200 in a weekend if I can be fucked.
I basically have 3 major questions:
1. How does one get good photos when they're a loner. Should I make it look like someone else took them or should I just wait till I get super ripped? Should I wait till I look better and get some pro photos? can you be succesful with just selfies?
2. What do I do about my style. What works on pale tall guys? Out of looks, style and game I think my style is definitely the weakest. Is there just a general rule I should follow? I think with some accessories it could work - but in Australia it's often very very hot - no jackets, rarely jeans.
3. Should I just go for the BF look for now? I mean like a nice shirt, glasses, look kind of rich and intelligent - it's pretty hard to look like a player when you're a ginger - I don't mind the BF look, honestly my ideal sex life would be rotating girls every 2-3 months (so only 4-5 girls a year) with some overlap. Not looking to break 100 or anything like - just want to get to 30 before I'm 30 (currently on 4 and 25yo)
Thanks for any help guys.