Hello there!
So I’m addressing my problem and my biggest shame right on spot. I’m a 25-year-old virgin. There are probably many reasons for that but that doesn’t matter now. It matters that I took matters into my own hands and already started to apply the loose your virginity Guide on this website and what should I say?
It (kinda) works for me. For the first time in my life I had Dates. I roughly began one year ago to lose weight and simultaneously dating girls online. My style is not bad, my best friend worked at DIESEL and I learned and bought a lot from there. So my only Problem is my insecurity about my lacking experience and my Bodyweight but I’ll start from the beginning and post my Dates.
I hope someone might help me and tell me where my errors are and what I may do better the next time.
Date 1# Girl “E”
“E” was the first girl from online I met. We chatted I got here number fast and called her. We had a reaaaaallly long talk and I immediately took a liking to this girl but then came the surprise. When we met she wasn’t quite the same girl. She was really short and overweight. Also I didn’t like her character as it turned out she was very different than me. After we grabbed some coffee she even took me to a party with her friends but we didn’t stay very long.
After that we met again to eat some ice cream but her and mine lack to meet a third time ended our contact overall. She writes me from time to time when she’s bored but I’m not really interested in her anymore. She even told me she has a sex-relationship currently so I’m out of the game.
Date 2# Girl “JM”
“JM” was very strange. She responded very shy and when we met we didn’t talk very much. It was the first time where I thought this wasn’t due to my failure but because she was boring.
Date 3# “A”
“A” was a very nice and kind girl but the problem was that she was much bigger than I am. She was 6 ft. tall! She was into sports which was very cool and she was a virgin too. The Date was nice but at the end she began talking about a boy she fell in love with and who suddenly left her and she still has feelings for him. I saw this as a bad sign and did probably the most stupid thing by scaring her with spiders which she was afraid of. xD
Not to say that it didn’t play out.![;)]( ";)")
Date 4# “N”
Oh Boy! “N” was the girl! I fell in love with this girl. It was for the first time in 4 years that I opened my heart for a woman again. We met on a Comic Convention and we both were Harry Potter fans. I grabbed her Facebook and later got her number. We met at a café and stayed there for nearly 2 hours. But after that… nothing! I called her she never replied and when she finally did she told me she had no feelings for me. That was soooo hard! I really liked this girl and wanted her so much. I think the Problem was that I wasn’t engaging in sexually conversation and didn’t touch her very much. Could this be a problem?
Date 5# “S”
After “N” I thought nothing good would ever happen to me, I was wrong! I met “S” trough Tinder and after a long period of chatting and rescheduling 2 times we finally met. We went eating some Burgers and later to a cocktail bar. I don’t know why but I suddenly wanted her to shut up because she was mocking me and I just grabbed her and kissed her and we made out. I had made out before but this was the first time sober and on a date. To make things even better on the next day she wanted to be my girlfriend. She even made it public on Facebook I was kinda scared but I enjoyed her feelings for me.
But it just didn’t turn out well. After a few days she wrote me and told me she had mental problems because of a rape attempt and she doesn’t feel ready for a relationship let alone sex. My world was crumbling again but I acted like a Gentleman and agreed.
We got recently in touch again her state hasn’t changed but she said she believes in second chances.
Date 6# “J”
I don’t wanna write much about “J” because she was another fatty who deceived me through her pictures. We went on breakfast it was nice and all but we haven’t heard from each other since.
Date 7# “H”
Now comes the latest entry and my biggest regret. I met “H” online before Date 5 and after a few weeks she told me she finds I’m a very cool guy and she likes me but she wants to be honest and told me she currently has a fuckbuddy. So we ended the contact. After I Broke up with “S” she suddenly called me again. After a while she told me her Fuckbuddy left and her life had taken a step down. We decided to meet and eat some ice cream. We strolled on the river bank and it was genuinely nice. But again I didn’t touch her very much or talked about sex.
Then came the moment of truth. She asked me if I wanted to come over to her and watch Netflix. I immediately said yes and Day X came. When I was at her home the first problem was her stupid dog. It licked all over my face always wanted to play with me and he was jealous as fuck. When we were watching. I remembered Chris’ Guide and thought” ok we’re on 2nd Date so let’s not do this to fast”. Big Mistake! Time went by and i made a move and kissed her. She replied but told me I should leave because her dog doesn’t like new people and she has work on the next day. She took me to the bus while we were holding hands and she kissed me goodbye. Sounds good? Nope!
After 2 Two days she wrote me she thinks we are to different and it doesn’t make sense to meet anymore. As you may think I’m still pretty down because of this.
So my question is what’s my problem? If you have questions about my behavior just ask. I’m open to any advice on losing my damn v-card.
So I’m addressing my problem and my biggest shame right on spot. I’m a 25-year-old virgin. There are probably many reasons for that but that doesn’t matter now. It matters that I took matters into my own hands and already started to apply the loose your virginity Guide on this website and what should I say?
It (kinda) works for me. For the first time in my life I had Dates. I roughly began one year ago to lose weight and simultaneously dating girls online. My style is not bad, my best friend worked at DIESEL and I learned and bought a lot from there. So my only Problem is my insecurity about my lacking experience and my Bodyweight but I’ll start from the beginning and post my Dates.
I hope someone might help me and tell me where my errors are and what I may do better the next time.
Date 1# Girl “E”
“E” was the first girl from online I met. We chatted I got here number fast and called her. We had a reaaaaallly long talk and I immediately took a liking to this girl but then came the surprise. When we met she wasn’t quite the same girl. She was really short and overweight. Also I didn’t like her character as it turned out she was very different than me. After we grabbed some coffee she even took me to a party with her friends but we didn’t stay very long.
After that we met again to eat some ice cream but her and mine lack to meet a third time ended our contact overall. She writes me from time to time when she’s bored but I’m not really interested in her anymore. She even told me she has a sex-relationship currently so I’m out of the game.
Date 2# Girl “JM”
“JM” was very strange. She responded very shy and when we met we didn’t talk very much. It was the first time where I thought this wasn’t due to my failure but because she was boring.
Date 3# “A”
“A” was a very nice and kind girl but the problem was that she was much bigger than I am. She was 6 ft. tall! She was into sports which was very cool and she was a virgin too. The Date was nice but at the end she began talking about a boy she fell in love with and who suddenly left her and she still has feelings for him. I saw this as a bad sign and did probably the most stupid thing by scaring her with spiders which she was afraid of. xD
Not to say that it didn’t play out.
Date 4# “N”
Oh Boy! “N” was the girl! I fell in love with this girl. It was for the first time in 4 years that I opened my heart for a woman again. We met on a Comic Convention and we both were Harry Potter fans. I grabbed her Facebook and later got her number. We met at a café and stayed there for nearly 2 hours. But after that… nothing! I called her she never replied and when she finally did she told me she had no feelings for me. That was soooo hard! I really liked this girl and wanted her so much. I think the Problem was that I wasn’t engaging in sexually conversation and didn’t touch her very much. Could this be a problem?
Date 5# “S”
After “N” I thought nothing good would ever happen to me, I was wrong! I met “S” trough Tinder and after a long period of chatting and rescheduling 2 times we finally met. We went eating some Burgers and later to a cocktail bar. I don’t know why but I suddenly wanted her to shut up because she was mocking me and I just grabbed her and kissed her and we made out. I had made out before but this was the first time sober and on a date. To make things even better on the next day she wanted to be my girlfriend. She even made it public on Facebook I was kinda scared but I enjoyed her feelings for me.
But it just didn’t turn out well. After a few days she wrote me and told me she had mental problems because of a rape attempt and she doesn’t feel ready for a relationship let alone sex. My world was crumbling again but I acted like a Gentleman and agreed.
We got recently in touch again her state hasn’t changed but she said she believes in second chances.
Date 6# “J”
I don’t wanna write much about “J” because she was another fatty who deceived me through her pictures. We went on breakfast it was nice and all but we haven’t heard from each other since.
Date 7# “H”
Now comes the latest entry and my biggest regret. I met “H” online before Date 5 and after a few weeks she told me she finds I’m a very cool guy and she likes me but she wants to be honest and told me she currently has a fuckbuddy. So we ended the contact. After I Broke up with “S” she suddenly called me again. After a while she told me her Fuckbuddy left and her life had taken a step down. We decided to meet and eat some ice cream. We strolled on the river bank and it was genuinely nice. But again I didn’t touch her very much or talked about sex.
Then came the moment of truth. She asked me if I wanted to come over to her and watch Netflix. I immediately said yes and Day X came. When I was at her home the first problem was her stupid dog. It licked all over my face always wanted to play with me and he was jealous as fuck. When we were watching. I remembered Chris’ Guide and thought” ok we’re on 2nd Date so let’s not do this to fast”. Big Mistake! Time went by and i made a move and kissed her. She replied but told me I should leave because her dog doesn’t like new people and she has work on the next day. She took me to the bus while we were holding hands and she kissed me goodbye. Sounds good? Nope!
After 2 Two days she wrote me she thinks we are to different and it doesn’t make sense to meet anymore. As you may think I’m still pretty down because of this.
So my question is what’s my problem? If you have questions about my behavior just ask. I’m open to any advice on losing my damn v-card.