hi there guys, long time reader but just started w/ the forum. I'll go to the point.
I'm 16, made mad progress in the music biz in 1 year so now i'm busy af + working out + school
Looks not maxed yet, average social anxiety and validation issue (had em all my life), not enough success as social proof yet. So i'm not happy about these situations so I'm really conscious about not being a valuable man with women and men at my school who are really worthwile and worried about their rejection.
I do hang around w/ these men at school, but really aquaintance ish. Outside just eventual parties, where I don't really have fun nor talk to girls. Got to add, I barely talk/chit chat and bond w/ people(especially women) from school because of anxiety/validation thing + being really busy about myself + don't care at all. I just talk legit friends wise with music industry people and fellow djs, few, and only about biz and getting shit done.
My question is: should I focus in improving with women and social life overall (while working out and being really valuable) or focus on music(while still getting valuable) People at my school may be really important biz contacts(not music wise) in the future + now they throw tons of parties and sex and really hot girls soo, yeah. TY, appreciate your time.
I'm 16, made mad progress in the music biz in 1 year so now i'm busy af + working out + school
Looks not maxed yet, average social anxiety and validation issue (had em all my life), not enough success as social proof yet. So i'm not happy about these situations so I'm really conscious about not being a valuable man with women and men at my school who are really worthwile and worried about their rejection.
I do hang around w/ these men at school, but really aquaintance ish. Outside just eventual parties, where I don't really have fun nor talk to girls. Got to add, I barely talk/chit chat and bond w/ people(especially women) from school because of anxiety/validation thing + being really busy about myself + don't care at all. I just talk legit friends wise with music industry people and fellow djs, few, and only about biz and getting shit done.
My question is: should I focus in improving with women and social life overall (while working out and being really valuable) or focus on music(while still getting valuable) People at my school may be really important biz contacts(not music wise) in the future + now they throw tons of parties and sex and really hot girls soo, yeah. TY, appreciate your time.