Sup GLL fam,
So one of the things that definitely holds me back when it comes to pulling the trigger is thinking too much. I'm in the process of trying to lose my v-card so I'm on okcupid and tinder in addition to hitting on women. There's this girl who I've known for close to 2 years now and I only started getting feelings for her around winter since we were hanging out a lot during that time. Now i'm starting to get the vibe that she likes me too, but there's all these other shit that she does that makes me reluctant from asking her out. Pretty much I'm looking for some motivation and guidance as far as what to do. She's already comfortable around me, but we haven't done anything too physical as yet. It's more like she will stare at me sometimes and she has no problem being close to me. I could flat out ask her out or try to do something physical, but I've never really hit on a friend before because It makes me way more anxious than if it were just a stranger. If you need more context, just ask, but I'd be down to get with this girl. I guess i'm just waiting for an obvious sign that i just might be missing. Or i just need to initiate it...
So one of the things that definitely holds me back when it comes to pulling the trigger is thinking too much. I'm in the process of trying to lose my v-card so I'm on okcupid and tinder in addition to hitting on women. There's this girl who I've known for close to 2 years now and I only started getting feelings for her around winter since we were hanging out a lot during that time. Now i'm starting to get the vibe that she likes me too, but there's all these other shit that she does that makes me reluctant from asking her out. Pretty much I'm looking for some motivation and guidance as far as what to do. She's already comfortable around me, but we haven't done anything too physical as yet. It's more like she will stare at me sometimes and she has no problem being close to me. I could flat out ask her out or try to do something physical, but I've never really hit on a friend before because It makes me way more anxious than if it were just a stranger. If you need more context, just ask, but I'd be down to get with this girl. I guess i'm just waiting for an obvious sign that i just might be missing. Or i just need to initiate it...