Finally started the fucking AA.
DAY 1 - Ask for the time - Leave
Approaches - 7/5
Girls spoken to 9/5
I wasn't sure if I was going to start today (nerves) or when I was going to start. As I was walking to uni though, the first girl I saw, somewhat attractive girl walking towards me for about 40 seconds. We where totally alone, she had her phone in her hand and I caught her checking me out... Clearly a sign from God. I was super nervous but I asked her for the time (big woop).
I asked another 4 girls - 2 of them I was sexually attracted to. I still had no desire to talk to them beyond the drill though (ex-gf demons still haunt me). Took a break, did some work, and asked another 3 on the way home.
I tried avoiding talking to Asians chicks or larger girls - they feel like cheat reps, as I have no desire to ever get with them. Crazy attracted to indian girls though (brown skin, petite, modest). Didn't approach 2 of them and yea.. that made me feel bad.
I noticed I was still making it easy on myself - struggled to ask a girl if there was a guy with her / around. It's like I think they're too smart, they know - maybe it's because I've been the other guy so many times. So in crowded places (like the street market) I couldn't approach. Also I wouldn't walk towards a girl if she was well out of my way, also a problem.
I also noticed I was opening with "Hey, Sorry...." and speaking in a really submissive high voice. It was getting too easy so the last girl I made sure to say "Hey there" in a normal tone, she was very hot as well... she laughed while checking the time for some reason? but all smiles.
Overall every single interaction was very good . . even asked some feminist looking girls and they where super happy to help... undoing the damage already![:)]( ":)")
I also know I will get some bad reactions in the future, and that is neccesary.
If you can cold approach you are top 1%
I have this friend at uni. He is French, works out, has very good fashion sense and is one of the most extroverted people I ever met. Walking through uni - it feels like every 20m he is saying "whats up bro" to a new person. All the girls at the cafe know him intimately. He has been with 20 girls at the age of 21, and has been in a relationship with a very (very) hot blonde for the last 3 years as well. He never learnt anything from no one, he is the definition of a natural player.
That being said - even he, as extroverted and comfortable as he is, can not cold approach. Standing in the bar he points out a chick with a tight white top and massive tits - he was hypnotised - I could tell though, he couldn't go and talk to her. He just relies on his (very large) social circle still.
Having Style
I wore my dogtag out for the first time today - at first I felt a little self-concious, maybe I looked douchey? Although I can tell someone where deep down I have am a fighter, and the more I look like I fight people for fun (which I do) the happier I will be. I seriously have no issue fighting someone / I'm always crazy on edge anyway. So yea I felt pretty good, actually really good, looking edgier than I usually do - and I actually enjoyed approaching the hot chicks, it was fun.
Plenty of Fish
I also started plenty of fish - have a gander at my profile: www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=120978041
My pics are really bad and letting me down - I have the house to myself tomorrow, I will got try hard getting the perfect pic, anyone got any tips? I know professional and DLSR is the onlyway to go really, but I'm not getting pro pics until I have a better wardrobe.
2 numbers out of 40 messages - still need to text them.
summary
Felt pretty good about today, I thought I was goal overloading myself (app, gym, blackbelt, AA, dating) but honestly I did most of my AA drill just walking to uni - I'm pretty excited about the holidays. Go to uni in the morning, do AA in the city at lunch, then go to the gym/train in the evening. Might even get a chance to go on some dates.
DAY 1 - Ask for the time - Leave
Approaches - 7/5
Girls spoken to 9/5
I wasn't sure if I was going to start today (nerves) or when I was going to start. As I was walking to uni though, the first girl I saw, somewhat attractive girl walking towards me for about 40 seconds. We where totally alone, she had her phone in her hand and I caught her checking me out... Clearly a sign from God. I was super nervous but I asked her for the time (big woop).
I asked another 4 girls - 2 of them I was sexually attracted to. I still had no desire to talk to them beyond the drill though (ex-gf demons still haunt me). Took a break, did some work, and asked another 3 on the way home.
I tried avoiding talking to Asians chicks or larger girls - they feel like cheat reps, as I have no desire to ever get with them. Crazy attracted to indian girls though (brown skin, petite, modest). Didn't approach 2 of them and yea.. that made me feel bad.
I noticed I was still making it easy on myself - struggled to ask a girl if there was a guy with her / around. It's like I think they're too smart, they know - maybe it's because I've been the other guy so many times. So in crowded places (like the street market) I couldn't approach. Also I wouldn't walk towards a girl if she was well out of my way, also a problem.
I also noticed I was opening with "Hey, Sorry...." and speaking in a really submissive high voice. It was getting too easy so the last girl I made sure to say "Hey there" in a normal tone, she was very hot as well... she laughed while checking the time for some reason? but all smiles.
Overall every single interaction was very good . . even asked some feminist looking girls and they where super happy to help... undoing the damage already
I also know I will get some bad reactions in the future, and that is neccesary.If you can cold approach you are top 1%
I have this friend at uni. He is French, works out, has very good fashion sense and is one of the most extroverted people I ever met. Walking through uni - it feels like every 20m he is saying "whats up bro" to a new person. All the girls at the cafe know him intimately. He has been with 20 girls at the age of 21, and has been in a relationship with a very (very) hot blonde for the last 3 years as well. He never learnt anything from no one, he is the definition of a natural player.
That being said - even he, as extroverted and comfortable as he is, can not cold approach. Standing in the bar he points out a chick with a tight white top and massive tits - he was hypnotised - I could tell though, he couldn't go and talk to her. He just relies on his (very large) social circle still.
Having Style
I wore my dogtag out for the first time today - at first I felt a little self-concious, maybe I looked douchey? Although I can tell someone where deep down I have am a fighter, and the more I look like I fight people for fun (which I do) the happier I will be. I seriously have no issue fighting someone / I'm always crazy on edge anyway. So yea I felt pretty good, actually really good, looking edgier than I usually do - and I actually enjoyed approaching the hot chicks, it was fun.
Plenty of Fish
I also started plenty of fish - have a gander at my profile: www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=120978041
My pics are really bad and letting me down - I have the house to myself tomorrow, I will got try hard getting the perfect pic, anyone got any tips? I know professional and DLSR is the onlyway to go really, but I'm not getting pro pics until I have a better wardrobe.
2 numbers out of 40 messages - still need to text them.
summary
Felt pretty good about today, I thought I was goal overloading myself (app, gym, blackbelt, AA, dating) but honestly I did most of my AA drill just walking to uni - I'm pretty excited about the holidays. Go to uni in the morning, do AA in the city at lunch, then go to the gym/train in the evening. Might even get a chance to go on some dates.