So I'm 22 and around 5'4, which is short even for shorter guys (I still get a little angry when people complain about being 5,![8)]( "8)")
. This has been an source of self deprecation since Early high school and I've personally been told by more girls then I'd like that my height is a reason that they wouldn't go out with me. So I finally decided to bite the bullet and get show lifts. They knock me up about 3 inches but Max out around 5, although I feel that'd be a bit too uncomfortable. I immediately could noticed the difference and its boosted my confidence a little, but I still can't shake this "Im living a lie" sort of feeling. I know I shouldn't worry about that and I keep telling myself that "this is for the better" and that "being taller was something you've wanted all your life" but these self doubting thoughts keep creeping in my head like "what if I go home with a girl, take off my shoes and I drop a couple inches and it gets real awkward with the girl". Is that a stupid thing to think?
. This has been an source of self deprecation since Early high school and I've personally been told by more girls then I'd like that my height is a reason that they wouldn't go out with me. So I finally decided to bite the bullet and get show lifts. They knock me up about 3 inches but Max out around 5, although I feel that'd be a bit too uncomfortable. I immediately could noticed the difference and its boosted my confidence a little, but I still can't shake this "Im living a lie" sort of feeling. I know I shouldn't worry about that and I keep telling myself that "this is for the better" and that "being taller was something you've wanted all your life" but these self doubting thoughts keep creeping in my head like "what if I go home with a girl, take off my shoes and I drop a couple inches and it gets real awkward with the girl". Is that a stupid thing to think?