What's good GLL,
I just want a little perspective on this.
Is it beneficial to remain friends with an interest? For example, you develop feelings for a friend, you try to get with them, they turn you down but are still cool with you after. I know for me personally, once you become an interest and It's clear that I don't have a chance with you, I can't see myself still being their friend like how it was before I caught feelings. Because then it just means that I'm on an agenda. The reason I ask this is because I may or may not be in this type of situation relatively soon, and although this girl is pretty cool, i don't see her as a just a friend who I hang out with anymore. If it doesn't work out, would it benefit me to still maintain the friendship that we had or does it depend on the relationship that I have with her?
I just want a little perspective on this.
Is it beneficial to remain friends with an interest? For example, you develop feelings for a friend, you try to get with them, they turn you down but are still cool with you after. I know for me personally, once you become an interest and It's clear that I don't have a chance with you, I can't see myself still being their friend like how it was before I caught feelings. Because then it just means that I'm on an agenda. The reason I ask this is because I may or may not be in this type of situation relatively soon, and although this girl is pretty cool, i don't see her as a just a friend who I hang out with anymore. If it doesn't work out, would it benefit me to still maintain the friendship that we had or does it depend on the relationship that I have with her?
