I live in a big city of over 2 million including the conjoined suburb areas.
When I was younger I thought the bigger the city the better for gaming but now Ive been here for over 10 years I really despise the money is everything materlist culture. All the girls seem obsessed with the 'popping bottles' bullshit I can barely stand carrying on a conversation with them.
I am thinking that a smaller large town/or small city would be more the kind of girls Im into. All girls in my current city seem so influenced by the money money money culture. Of course nearly every girl is going to be influenced by such things to an extent but I think it might be a less dominant force in a smaller town. I grew up in the country and although I hated it for being bored at the time in hindsight I much prefer the simple way of life, Going full country though I dont think is the way since I still need to practice my game so the place has to be large enough to cater for that.
I am torn because my tenancy contract comes up soon. I keep wondering whether I didnt give this place enough of a try or that whether staying here will just drive me deeper into misery. The thing is my current apartment is pretty much perfect since it is in the city centre and decent price- altho they said they are going to raise the price on me soon.
I mean it is a huge city so must be some down to earth girls in it but I find it so hard to find them. I just feel so stuck in my old routines in this place. I have gotten such a negative attitude I barely approach at all now daytime or nighttime. Just sick of the same old places. I wonder if a new place would give me the jolt I need.
Interested to hear what others did if they were in a similar position and how they went about making their decision.
When I was younger I thought the bigger the city the better for gaming but now Ive been here for over 10 years I really despise the money is everything materlist culture. All the girls seem obsessed with the 'popping bottles' bullshit I can barely stand carrying on a conversation with them.
I am thinking that a smaller large town/or small city would be more the kind of girls Im into. All girls in my current city seem so influenced by the money money money culture. Of course nearly every girl is going to be influenced by such things to an extent but I think it might be a less dominant force in a smaller town. I grew up in the country and although I hated it for being bored at the time in hindsight I much prefer the simple way of life, Going full country though I dont think is the way since I still need to practice my game so the place has to be large enough to cater for that.
I am torn because my tenancy contract comes up soon. I keep wondering whether I didnt give this place enough of a try or that whether staying here will just drive me deeper into misery. The thing is my current apartment is pretty much perfect since it is in the city centre and decent price- altho they said they are going to raise the price on me soon.
I mean it is a huge city so must be some down to earth girls in it but I find it so hard to find them. I just feel so stuck in my old routines in this place. I have gotten such a negative attitude I barely approach at all now daytime or nighttime. Just sick of the same old places. I wonder if a new place would give me the jolt I need.
Interested to hear what others did if they were in a similar position and how they went about making their decision.