Hi I'm a new member of this community. I'm currently starting Approach Anxiety program and this is my day 2.
Here are some details about myself:
-Originally from Vietnam, living in Auckland New Zealand at the moment
- Turning 20 years in 5 weeks time
- If I could accomplish one thing in the next 12 months it would be having success with women. Getting 1-2 lays/ week. Have big social circle with a few close friends who share the growth mindset and philosophy.
In terms of business I would like to establish (try out) my own online business. I have no idea what it going to be but really don't like to work for somebody else.
I'm also an amateur stand up comedian. My goal for the next 12 months is to become a professional comedian. There is a blurred distinction between being amateur and being professional but my benchmark is to get paid for it.
-I have been reading self-improvement stuffs for about a year. This includes reading books, watching videos online and posting on forum (I should do this more often). Officially started pick-up around 8 months ago (took 2 months gap in between). Haven't had a lot of success yet even though I have improved quite a bit. What is killing my pick up career is Approach Anxiety (modaf*cker!!!)
- My approaches have been really inconsistent. If I go out and start approaching a lot I would normally have a great night but as soon as I stop approaching everything goes horrible. There are not many night that I can go out and approach so I'm getting really frustrated and been thinking about giving up pick up a couple times. However, the though about not doing pick up is even more horrible (being lonely and rotten to the end of my life...). So that is what pushing me forward but the continuous failure is really killing me.
-I have not had sex before so basically a virgin. All the cool kids around me probably have had sex when they're 15 so feel a bit jealous. I had 2 girlfriends back in highschool but too chody to do anything with them. I got kisses and dates but no pull yet.
Really looking forward to learn from everyone in the community
Here are some details about myself:
-Originally from Vietnam, living in Auckland New Zealand at the moment
- Turning 20 years in 5 weeks time
- If I could accomplish one thing in the next 12 months it would be having success with women. Getting 1-2 lays/ week. Have big social circle with a few close friends who share the growth mindset and philosophy.
In terms of business I would like to establish (try out) my own online business. I have no idea what it going to be but really don't like to work for somebody else.
I'm also an amateur stand up comedian. My goal for the next 12 months is to become a professional comedian. There is a blurred distinction between being amateur and being professional but my benchmark is to get paid for it.
-I have been reading self-improvement stuffs for about a year. This includes reading books, watching videos online and posting on forum (I should do this more often). Officially started pick-up around 8 months ago (took 2 months gap in between). Haven't had a lot of success yet even though I have improved quite a bit. What is killing my pick up career is Approach Anxiety (modaf*cker!!!)
- My approaches have been really inconsistent. If I go out and start approaching a lot I would normally have a great night but as soon as I stop approaching everything goes horrible. There are not many night that I can go out and approach so I'm getting really frustrated and been thinking about giving up pick up a couple times. However, the though about not doing pick up is even more horrible (being lonely and rotten to the end of my life...). So that is what pushing me forward but the continuous failure is really killing me.
-I have not had sex before so basically a virgin. All the cool kids around me probably have had sex when they're 15 so feel a bit jealous. I had 2 girlfriends back in highschool but too chody to do anything with them. I got kisses and dates but no pull yet.
Really looking forward to learn from everyone in the community