I know there was another thread about this somewhere but I can't find it. Since I came to Portland I've gone on 8-10 dates. No matter how well they go, I never hear from these women again. There was one where we were trying to set up a second date but stuff kept coming up on her end but finally she just stopped responding. This was after a date that I thought went pretty well (hopefully it wasn't my fault and she just found someone she liked more.) The most frustrating was the one who sent me a pic of her tits, told me she'd be home alone in the morning, then ghosted me before she could tell me where to meet. Is there any way to minimize the chance of these things happening, or at least filter out the flakes?
In addition to that a lot of the girls I message online are happy to talk to me until I actually suggest meeting up, then they stop responding. I'm not sure whether I'm going too fast or too slow but I try to make the pitch after we send 4 messages each.
In addition to that a lot of the girls I message online are happy to talk to me until I actually suggest meeting up, then they stop responding. I'm not sure whether I'm going too fast or too slow but I try to make the pitch after we send 4 messages each.