Here is my text strategy currently:
1. Meet girl with direct game and make some physical advance (usually touch arm/elbow, hold hand, sometimes grab hand) then ask to meet up and take number.
2. I text the girl within 5 or so minutes. I do this to really judge how interested she is... if she texts back I think I'm likely to meet up with her. If she doesn't I judge it's not likely but also not impossible. My text is usually something like this but with context from our conversation: "Hey total cutie... now u got my number too" Does anyone else do almost immediate texts? I like it because I get an answer on whether she's potentially in or out. If the girl really likes me she's not gonna think... "omg this guy just texted my he his number so he's super needy" I'd rather play aggressive and start communication. A lot of girls reply something simple like "Thx great to meet ya" or something like that
3a. With girls that respond to initial text, I try to set up meet up by text/phone. I want to meet up ASAP, but usually send initiate text about 2-3 days later depending on schedule. Sometimes earlier if the girl was really warm.
3b. This is my big strategy question... with girls that don't respond to initial message I'm not sure how long to wait to reach out. My gut is telling me to wait a week. So girl doesn't respond I wait a week so I'm not chasing or begging her to hang out... but also not too much time so she doesn't forget. How long do some of you peeps wait to reach out to a girl that gave you a number but didn't respond to initial text? I do think it's worth trying... even if 1 out of 20 replies that is one more option. The good news is that in that week that I'm waiting... I'm out meeting new girls, getting numbers, etc. But I want to do my best on each opportunity just so I'm satisfied with myself and my effort.
4. Last text is really just day of the meet up to confirm.
* With girls I've already met up with I just throw any strategy out the window. I'm busy so effective limited communication per the retention guide just to establish that I'm not connected to my phone. Plus the girls that have already met up with me or that I've slept with are reliable when responding.
That's about it... maybe I'll stop worrying about text strategy when I start getting new pussy haha. But for now I don't want to let any option fall through the cracks.
1. Meet girl with direct game and make some physical advance (usually touch arm/elbow, hold hand, sometimes grab hand) then ask to meet up and take number.
2. I text the girl within 5 or so minutes. I do this to really judge how interested she is... if she texts back I think I'm likely to meet up with her. If she doesn't I judge it's not likely but also not impossible. My text is usually something like this but with context from our conversation: "Hey total cutie... now u got my number too" Does anyone else do almost immediate texts? I like it because I get an answer on whether she's potentially in or out. If the girl really likes me she's not gonna think... "omg this guy just texted my he his number so he's super needy" I'd rather play aggressive and start communication. A lot of girls reply something simple like "Thx great to meet ya" or something like that
3a. With girls that respond to initial text, I try to set up meet up by text/phone. I want to meet up ASAP, but usually send initiate text about 2-3 days later depending on schedule. Sometimes earlier if the girl was really warm.
3b. This is my big strategy question... with girls that don't respond to initial message I'm not sure how long to wait to reach out. My gut is telling me to wait a week. So girl doesn't respond I wait a week so I'm not chasing or begging her to hang out... but also not too much time so she doesn't forget. How long do some of you peeps wait to reach out to a girl that gave you a number but didn't respond to initial text? I do think it's worth trying... even if 1 out of 20 replies that is one more option. The good news is that in that week that I'm waiting... I'm out meeting new girls, getting numbers, etc. But I want to do my best on each opportunity just so I'm satisfied with myself and my effort.
4. Last text is really just day of the meet up to confirm.
* With girls I've already met up with I just throw any strategy out the window. I'm busy so effective limited communication per the retention guide just to establish that I'm not connected to my phone. Plus the girls that have already met up with me or that I've slept with are reliable when responding.
That's about it... maybe I'll stop worrying about text strategy when I start getting new pussy haha. But for now I don't want to let any option fall through the cracks.