Making this post for Chris as we've spoken on the topic a bit and wanted him to elaborate on my particular situation with a one night stand.
Pulled a one night stand Saturday, sex was awesome. Spent the night at my place, fucked again in morning, she brought up continuing situation in future. Wasn't planning on it but since she seemed game I figured it would be easy ass. Not so. Communication has been non-existent since brief text convo later that same night. Tried re-initiating after no texts for 24 hours but nothing yet.
Chris last mentioned "its just a matter of how much of a player v. BF you are. It's her availability." My interpretation is that I gave her a really strong player vibe by how things went down that night but maybe flip flopped a bit when I attempted to contact her too soon/much based on what she wanted out of this. I really wanted to hear more about this last piece of info.
Pulled a one night stand Saturday, sex was awesome. Spent the night at my place, fucked again in morning, she brought up continuing situation in future. Wasn't planning on it but since she seemed game I figured it would be easy ass. Not so. Communication has been non-existent since brief text convo later that same night. Tried re-initiating after no texts for 24 hours but nothing yet.
Chris last mentioned "its just a matter of how much of a player v. BF you are. It's her availability." My interpretation is that I gave her a really strong player vibe by how things went down that night but maybe flip flopped a bit when I attempted to contact her too soon/much based on what she wanted out of this. I really wanted to hear more about this last piece of info.