I've found myself in a recent situation that I have found myself in the past.
I work with this girl, and we flirt a lot. She's given me clear signs that she is into me, but when I suggested that we actually hang out, she kind of gave me a vibe that she wasn't too interested.
Me: When are we gonna chill?
Her: Good question! Probably whenever we both have the day off which is like never! haha
....okay. So I thought that it might be a good idea to back off a bit. A few weeks later, I find out that she was straight up showing her nudes to a coworker/friend (whos taken btw). I felt kind of upset because I was starting to dig her. But I said fuck it and said it was time to move on to the next.
I come home from vacation after finding out about that, and right when I get to work...she flicks me off. I say "what is that for?" and she goes "I sent you 3 snaps and you didn't ever reply!".
It was almost like...a joke. I thought it was at first. But she was legitimately upset about that! A week before that, she snapped me asking me to get her food and drive it to her house...
So this makes me wonder...who the fuck does she think I am? How is she gonna make serious moves on my taken friend, and think she has a right to get mad at me for not giving her fucking attention. I don't think she wants me to know that she showed my boy her nudes either.
Honestly...being played as some kind of bitch boy is a fear that I never want to happen again. It honestly makes me feel worthless and not like women. I'm trying to change my ways of thinking in that area. But when girls such as her try to play me like Im gonna be up her ass doing whatever she wants while she makes moves on someone else makes me feel super low.
I vented to my friend about this. He said to not think too much about it. Shes not available so just dont play into it and move on from it. There was nothing there.
But it honestly fills me with rage when a girl tries to use me as an emotional tampon...or at least it seems that way....
GLL I need advice...support...any honest input. Does this happen to all guys? It makes me feel like im doing something wrong.
I work with this girl, and we flirt a lot. She's given me clear signs that she is into me, but when I suggested that we actually hang out, she kind of gave me a vibe that she wasn't too interested.
Me: When are we gonna chill?
Her: Good question! Probably whenever we both have the day off which is like never! haha
....okay. So I thought that it might be a good idea to back off a bit. A few weeks later, I find out that she was straight up showing her nudes to a coworker/friend (whos taken btw). I felt kind of upset because I was starting to dig her. But I said fuck it and said it was time to move on to the next.
I come home from vacation after finding out about that, and right when I get to work...she flicks me off. I say "what is that for?" and she goes "I sent you 3 snaps and you didn't ever reply!".
It was almost like...a joke. I thought it was at first. But she was legitimately upset about that! A week before that, she snapped me asking me to get her food and drive it to her house...
So this makes me wonder...who the fuck does she think I am? How is she gonna make serious moves on my taken friend, and think she has a right to get mad at me for not giving her fucking attention. I don't think she wants me to know that she showed my boy her nudes either.
Honestly...being played as some kind of bitch boy is a fear that I never want to happen again. It honestly makes me feel worthless and not like women. I'm trying to change my ways of thinking in that area. But when girls such as her try to play me like Im gonna be up her ass doing whatever she wants while she makes moves on someone else makes me feel super low.
I vented to my friend about this. He said to not think too much about it. Shes not available so just dont play into it and move on from it. There was nothing there.
But it honestly fills me with rage when a girl tries to use me as an emotional tampon...or at least it seems that way....
GLL I need advice...support...any honest input. Does this happen to all guys? It makes me feel like im doing something wrong.