Hey guys,
I had recently a fight with my brother's best friend. The guy really searched a fight with me, but I tried to be calm. Eventually he started to find my weak points, where he could hit me personally. He said some stuff that really hurt me so I only said: Yoo dude, just go abuse your girlfriend like you always do. (The guy abuses most girls, but no one knows) After I said that he wanted to fight me and started walking up to me. I turned away and just walked away from him. He tried to taunt me all the time, but I told him to stop and just turn away. I said stuff like: we are adults now, I don't want to fight etc. He ignored what I said and still walked up to me. He came closer each time and eventually started to run on to me to give the first hit. The first hit landed on my ears. My brother was watching from afar and didn't do anything. I told him to come and stop this guy, but he just watched...
SOOOO I really got angry and grabbed the guy and threw him in the bushes. After that I tried to hit his face with my punches. I got probably like three good solid punches on his face. After that my brother came and tried to stop me. ( I was like dafuq, he started the fight so just stop him). Because he tried to stop me, the guy had the advantage to hit me from the back. After that I tried to escape, because I was a pussy and didn't wanted to fight him anymore. I went asap to my friend's house and told him everything. (I noticed then that my shirt was ripped lol. It looked like an action movie pretty funny).
So eventually the guy apologized to my father and couple other people. But I don't accept his apologies. This happened a week ago and I am still pissed off. I just want to torture the guy and satisfy my wrath. The sad part is that I told every secret about those two ( my brother and his best friend) like that he abuses his girlfriend, the lies he told to other people and other stuff to everybody. I think it was wrong, but on the other hand I still think I did the right thing. Because remember my own brother didn't even help me when I was in a fight. He was just watching. Something similiar happened three months ago and I stopped speaking to him, but this is on a other scale. Should I forgive the guy ( my brother's best friend) or should I fight him when I see. just don't know what to do haha. I hope you guys could give me some advice, because I am a very emotional guy and I want to solve this in a very ALPHA way.
I had recently a fight with my brother's best friend. The guy really searched a fight with me, but I tried to be calm. Eventually he started to find my weak points, where he could hit me personally. He said some stuff that really hurt me so I only said: Yoo dude, just go abuse your girlfriend like you always do. (The guy abuses most girls, but no one knows) After I said that he wanted to fight me and started walking up to me. I turned away and just walked away from him. He tried to taunt me all the time, but I told him to stop and just turn away. I said stuff like: we are adults now, I don't want to fight etc. He ignored what I said and still walked up to me. He came closer each time and eventually started to run on to me to give the first hit. The first hit landed on my ears. My brother was watching from afar and didn't do anything. I told him to come and stop this guy, but he just watched...
SOOOO I really got angry and grabbed the guy and threw him in the bushes. After that I tried to hit his face with my punches. I got probably like three good solid punches on his face. After that my brother came and tried to stop me. ( I was like dafuq, he started the fight so just stop him). Because he tried to stop me, the guy had the advantage to hit me from the back. After that I tried to escape, because I was a pussy and didn't wanted to fight him anymore. I went asap to my friend's house and told him everything. (I noticed then that my shirt was ripped lol. It looked like an action movie pretty funny).
So eventually the guy apologized to my father and couple other people. But I don't accept his apologies. This happened a week ago and I am still pissed off. I just want to torture the guy and satisfy my wrath. The sad part is that I told every secret about those two ( my brother and his best friend) like that he abuses his girlfriend, the lies he told to other people and other stuff to everybody. I think it was wrong, but on the other hand I still think I did the right thing. Because remember my own brother didn't even help me when I was in a fight. He was just watching. Something similiar happened three months ago and I stopped speaking to him, but this is on a other scale. Should I forgive the guy ( my brother's best friend) or should I fight him when I see. just don't know what to do haha. I hope you guys could give me some advice, because I am a very emotional guy and I want to solve this in a very ALPHA way.