I've been involved with the 'pick up' community for about 4 years in some form or another and have gotten a number of lays here and there off cold approach. Up till recently I was on a hiatus but now I've come back and reconnected with a good looking wing to do nightgame downtown in my city. This wing is decent looking, he's half white half Asian, looks like a low level Abercrombie model. Obviously looks is the name of the game and it helps a lot but I was simply not prepared for I saw in the last two weekends.
- He literally NEVER gets "rejected"
- Thus even if the interaction doesn't pan out ultimately, the girls will be nice to him, smile, have receptive body language, talk at length, dance and grind, make out, etc.
- Almost all of his approaches have some kind of pre-approach IOI element he can depend on, where he knows he's been acknowledged, and gets a smooth, touchy, smiley response.
- Legit 1 in 2 approaches of his result in dancing/making out. Let me repeat: 1 in 2.
- He has to do 5-6 approaches a night max. Any concept of 'sausage fest' or 'big groups' is meaningless, because the few 'available' girls or sets are his by default - he gets them all in terms of receptiveness.
- ALL 4 nights I was with him he managed to pull a girl at the end of night off a dance floor approach after barely more than 15 minutes together. Every single night. With complete ease and dependability.
Like this is just too much for me. I could cope with it if for example he had to churn through a large number of tough interactions and then score the hot DTF girl in the end - in other words if he had to work hard at the 'Numbers Game' like the rest of us. But for him there isn't even a Numbers Game honestly. And he gets this, meanwhile I get abused and ignored endlessly for my approaches. Just seems so pointless having seen this. I really don't know what to do.
- He literally NEVER gets "rejected"
- Thus even if the interaction doesn't pan out ultimately, the girls will be nice to him, smile, have receptive body language, talk at length, dance and grind, make out, etc.
- Almost all of his approaches have some kind of pre-approach IOI element he can depend on, where he knows he's been acknowledged, and gets a smooth, touchy, smiley response.
- Legit 1 in 2 approaches of his result in dancing/making out. Let me repeat: 1 in 2.
- He has to do 5-6 approaches a night max. Any concept of 'sausage fest' or 'big groups' is meaningless, because the few 'available' girls or sets are his by default - he gets them all in terms of receptiveness.
- ALL 4 nights I was with him he managed to pull a girl at the end of night off a dance floor approach after barely more than 15 minutes together. Every single night. With complete ease and dependability.
Like this is just too much for me. I could cope with it if for example he had to churn through a large number of tough interactions and then score the hot DTF girl in the end - in other words if he had to work hard at the 'Numbers Game' like the rest of us. But for him there isn't even a Numbers Game honestly. And he gets this, meanwhile I get abused and ignored endlessly for my approaches. Just seems so pointless having seen this. I really don't know what to do.