Just looking for some perspective and advice....
So I'm well into my 3rd year of college now and honestly can't complain as far as how my life is going. Things are starting to move forward with personal goals. I'm seeing 2 new girls currently, whom i'll write about soon, and this girl I met during my time in Miami is visiting me this weekend. However, I feel like I'm just not talking to enough women.
My first two years of college weren't really spent on building a lot of relationships because I was working on fixing social issues, which I did, and also cold approaching on and off. I also couldn't do the frat thing based on the demands of my major, even though I went out to parties a lot my first two years. Which is the issue really. Most of my interactions with girls on a sexual level happen at parties, but not so much during the day.
My question is whether or not I should try to put myself in a position where i'm meeting and making relationships with girls(which I dont really know where to start) or just cold approach on campus? Also, cold approach in a dtf manner or let's date first and then see what's up? Just to give some context too, I'm a music major so most of my classes are small and I see the same people almost everyday except for one gen Ed class that I have to take per semester. I have to go out of my way to meet new people, which I do, but that can take up time from the little time that I actually have these days.
So I'm well into my 3rd year of college now and honestly can't complain as far as how my life is going. Things are starting to move forward with personal goals. I'm seeing 2 new girls currently, whom i'll write about soon, and this girl I met during my time in Miami is visiting me this weekend. However, I feel like I'm just not talking to enough women.
My first two years of college weren't really spent on building a lot of relationships because I was working on fixing social issues, which I did, and also cold approaching on and off. I also couldn't do the frat thing based on the demands of my major, even though I went out to parties a lot my first two years. Which is the issue really. Most of my interactions with girls on a sexual level happen at parties, but not so much during the day.
My question is whether or not I should try to put myself in a position where i'm meeting and making relationships with girls(which I dont really know where to start) or just cold approach on campus? Also, cold approach in a dtf manner or let's date first and then see what's up? Just to give some context too, I'm a music major so most of my classes are small and I see the same people almost everyday except for one gen Ed class that I have to take per semester. I have to go out of my way to meet new people, which I do, but that can take up time from the little time that I actually have these days.