First a little about me i came to this site by accident one day i got sucked in and it helped undo all the pua bullshit brainwashing that quite frankly ruined my life.
But that's all i gained from it, none of the programs worked for me. I blame myself for that but i did try. Since going my own way and doing my own thing i have made improvements (very little approach anxiety and more social freedom).
This is something i learned today that related to university life and maybe life in general but just know its very important shit.
What i learned is convenience and how important it is. Im going to explain this concept via a story because i feel that is the best way to do it.
I met this girl in one of classes during my first semester at my new uni after transferring from community college. She was into me, we talked after class, and while talking she came out and said she wanted to fuck, not exactly in those words but very straight to the point. She said she was free thursday it was wednesday. I said i wasn't free until monday. She was going home for the weekend so we agreed we would meet monday. Monday came and she flaked, we made plans again and again she flaked. I deleted her number after the second flake, so i see her during our next class together, she starts to flirt with me (I became very confused at this moment). I mostly ignore her, She continues, then it stops, this odd pattern continues. Yesterday i see her while i was walking to my car, she agrees to come to my car, we mess around then i drop her off at her class. I did not hear from her at all later that day, at this point she knows i deleted her number so i thought it was odd she didnt call or text me because we were both obviously horny. The next day after our class i talk to her and bring up the topic of her being so on and off and I tell her that i wanted to see her. Her answer was simple.
"I'm not trying to fuck with you, its just, i have more convenient friends."
This is the essence of why this girl would be so on and off i made her horny and whoever was near by when she got to her college dorm fucked her. This girl is very honest and very blunt. She let me know she had multiple people men and women who were simply more convenient sex(she's bi). Yes she was into me yes she liked me but i just wasn't convenient enough to call when there were ppl right next door, in a manner of speaking and probably quite literally. I learned so much from that small little conversation then i ever did from years of pick up shit telling me to game randoms bitches with stupid ass pick up lines like," hey my friends throwing a party i need your opinion."
But that's all i gained from it, none of the programs worked for me. I blame myself for that but i did try. Since going my own way and doing my own thing i have made improvements (very little approach anxiety and more social freedom).
This is something i learned today that related to university life and maybe life in general but just know its very important shit.
What i learned is convenience and how important it is. Im going to explain this concept via a story because i feel that is the best way to do it.
I met this girl in one of classes during my first semester at my new uni after transferring from community college. She was into me, we talked after class, and while talking she came out and said she wanted to fuck, not exactly in those words but very straight to the point. She said she was free thursday it was wednesday. I said i wasn't free until monday. She was going home for the weekend so we agreed we would meet monday. Monday came and she flaked, we made plans again and again she flaked. I deleted her number after the second flake, so i see her during our next class together, she starts to flirt with me (I became very confused at this moment). I mostly ignore her, She continues, then it stops, this odd pattern continues. Yesterday i see her while i was walking to my car, she agrees to come to my car, we mess around then i drop her off at her class. I did not hear from her at all later that day, at this point she knows i deleted her number so i thought it was odd she didnt call or text me because we were both obviously horny. The next day after our class i talk to her and bring up the topic of her being so on and off and I tell her that i wanted to see her. Her answer was simple.
"I'm not trying to fuck with you, its just, i have more convenient friends."
This is the essence of why this girl would be so on and off i made her horny and whoever was near by when she got to her college dorm fucked her. This girl is very honest and very blunt. She let me know she had multiple people men and women who were simply more convenient sex(she's bi). Yes she was into me yes she liked me but i just wasn't convenient enough to call when there were ppl right next door, in a manner of speaking and probably quite literally. I learned so much from that small little conversation then i ever did from years of pick up shit telling me to game randoms bitches with stupid ass pick up lines like," hey my friends throwing a party i need your opinion."