* Where you are from?
Hi my name is Darma. From Indonesia
* How old are you?
I am 27 years old
* What are your goals? (specific goals- I want to bang # of chicks in 2012)
My goal is to be a man of my prime where i am successful in my career, financially, spiritually (not in religious sense), and at the same time, I want to have as many sexual experiences as i can.
* If you could accomplish ONLY ONE THING in the next 12 months. What would it be? (be specific)
In the next 12 months, I aim to have at least 10 lay counts (ideally from cold approaches)
* How long have you been reading self-improvement stuff? Pickup/dating material?
I have been into self development/ pua stuffs for about 3-4 years.
* What are you main blockages? (if you don't know we'll figure them out)
I think my main blockages are my lack of sex appeal and killer instinct. Another blockage i have a tourettes syndrome. I believed tourettes had really ruined my sexual market value and my self confidence ever since I was a teenager.
* What's your experience level, more importantly- what's your dating/sex life been like over the past few years?
Although PUA stuffs still didnt get me the result that I wanted, I didnt regret it at all. In fact, I was so grateful because It has changed me into a way better person than i used to be. Back then my tourettes was really bad. I did not even have the balls to have a meal at a public restaurants because I dont want to look bad in public. My social anxiety was even more than extreme. But thanks to PUA stuffs and self help materials, I finally have my self confidence and social savvyness. I can say that I have a decent social intelligence thanks to many exposure therapies. From PUA stuffs, I discovered meditation. Thanks to meditation, my tourettes condition is sooooo much better off. I can say that it went 90% better. Meditation also helped me to get to know my self and body much better. I STRONGLY believe that my tourettes condition wont stop me from getting mad pussies ever since.
I am very experienced in day game cold approaches. In my first year discovering PUA stuffs, I was reading and studying the materials without approaching due to approach anxiety . And long enough after that, I decided to tackle my approach anxiety and started hitting on chicks. I do daygame approaches and I was really into it. For close to 2 years, I was sarging regularly in shopping malls most of the time. I was pretty good at getting phone numbers in daygame.
From daygame, I get many phone numbers but 98% of them were flaky numbers. Out of 2% of the numbers that weren't flaky, I fucked it up. Ive gotten very few dates from those numbers and the dates didnt go anywhere. After reading GLL, I realize it was mainly due to my massive lack of killer instincts.
I do not have night game experiences as I have a massive bars&clubs anxiety that stopped me from going to bars and clubs. This has been mostly contributed from my social anxiety in general. In my social circle, there are no girls around so I dont really have a male to female experiences. I didn't even bother trying online dating due to my ego and slight insecurities with my looks.
My life is very sexless. I lost my virginity to prostitute at the age of 25. All my sexual experiences were only paid sex so far. I am very sexually frustrated. The worse frustration I have: After almost 4 years of time and effort into these PUA stuffs, I am still sexless. Not even 1 lay count from cold approaches. It is obvious that I need to change my approach to reach my goal. That is why I am here in GLL. Through GLL, I realized that self improvement is one thing and getting laid in another thing. For me, getting girls require a totally different strategy and approach. I still love self improvement materials, but I do it for me, not for the girls.
+ Where'd you hear/find GoodLookingLoser.com?
I heard GLL from my PUA friends. They strongly recommended this site to me. I very very am thankful to find GLL. Suddenly, I see light again!!
Hi my name is Darma. From Indonesia
* How old are you?
I am 27 years old
* What are your goals? (specific goals- I want to bang # of chicks in 2012)
My goal is to be a man of my prime where i am successful in my career, financially, spiritually (not in religious sense), and at the same time, I want to have as many sexual experiences as i can.
* If you could accomplish ONLY ONE THING in the next 12 months. What would it be? (be specific)
In the next 12 months, I aim to have at least 10 lay counts (ideally from cold approaches)
* How long have you been reading self-improvement stuff? Pickup/dating material?
I have been into self development/ pua stuffs for about 3-4 years.
* What are you main blockages? (if you don't know we'll figure them out)
I think my main blockages are my lack of sex appeal and killer instinct. Another blockage i have a tourettes syndrome. I believed tourettes had really ruined my sexual market value and my self confidence ever since I was a teenager.
* What's your experience level, more importantly- what's your dating/sex life been like over the past few years?
Although PUA stuffs still didnt get me the result that I wanted, I didnt regret it at all. In fact, I was so grateful because It has changed me into a way better person than i used to be. Back then my tourettes was really bad. I did not even have the balls to have a meal at a public restaurants because I dont want to look bad in public. My social anxiety was even more than extreme. But thanks to PUA stuffs and self help materials, I finally have my self confidence and social savvyness. I can say that I have a decent social intelligence thanks to many exposure therapies. From PUA stuffs, I discovered meditation. Thanks to meditation, my tourettes condition is sooooo much better off. I can say that it went 90% better. Meditation also helped me to get to know my self and body much better. I STRONGLY believe that my tourettes condition wont stop me from getting mad pussies ever since.
I am very experienced in day game cold approaches. In my first year discovering PUA stuffs, I was reading and studying the materials without approaching due to approach anxiety . And long enough after that, I decided to tackle my approach anxiety and started hitting on chicks. I do daygame approaches and I was really into it. For close to 2 years, I was sarging regularly in shopping malls most of the time. I was pretty good at getting phone numbers in daygame.
From daygame, I get many phone numbers but 98% of them were flaky numbers. Out of 2% of the numbers that weren't flaky, I fucked it up. Ive gotten very few dates from those numbers and the dates didnt go anywhere. After reading GLL, I realize it was mainly due to my massive lack of killer instincts.
I do not have night game experiences as I have a massive bars&clubs anxiety that stopped me from going to bars and clubs. This has been mostly contributed from my social anxiety in general. In my social circle, there are no girls around so I dont really have a male to female experiences. I didn't even bother trying online dating due to my ego and slight insecurities with my looks.
My life is very sexless. I lost my virginity to prostitute at the age of 25. All my sexual experiences were only paid sex so far. I am very sexually frustrated. The worse frustration I have: After almost 4 years of time and effort into these PUA stuffs, I am still sexless. Not even 1 lay count from cold approaches. It is obvious that I need to change my approach to reach my goal. That is why I am here in GLL. Through GLL, I realized that self improvement is one thing and getting laid in another thing. For me, getting girls require a totally different strategy and approach. I still love self improvement materials, but I do it for me, not for the girls.
+ Where'd you hear/find GoodLookingLoser.com?
I heard GLL from my PUA friends. They strongly recommended this site to me. I very very am thankful to find GLL. Suddenly, I see light again!!