Hi,
A quick intro: Male, 36, married with kids. I had strong social anxiety in my 20s which has mellowed a little with age but is still there in the right/wrong circumstances. I'm finally ready to stop being a pussy and conquer my fear of approaching and flirting with women. I'm not looking to pick up girls for casual sex but I do want to do this for myself given it is an essential male skill for any man who wants to be desirable to women. If it puts the fear of god into my wife at the same time and she starting putting out more, then it's a win/win.
So here is the question; I've moved to a country where I don't speak the language (yet). I don't really want to wait until I've learned enough to have a decent conversation before starting the AA program. What's the best way to get going? Start doing it in English and hope the girls speak enough to understand me? Or learn the phrases required for each exercise and just accept i'm not going to understand their responses?
A quick intro: Male, 36, married with kids. I had strong social anxiety in my 20s which has mellowed a little with age but is still there in the right/wrong circumstances. I'm finally ready to stop being a pussy and conquer my fear of approaching and flirting with women. I'm not looking to pick up girls for casual sex but I do want to do this for myself given it is an essential male skill for any man who wants to be desirable to women. If it puts the fear of god into my wife at the same time and she starting putting out more, then it's a win/win.
So here is the question; I've moved to a country where I don't speak the language (yet). I don't really want to wait until I've learned enough to have a decent conversation before starting the AA program. What's the best way to get going? Start doing it in English and hope the girls speak enough to understand me? Or learn the phrases required for each exercise and just accept i'm not going to understand their responses?