Hey lads, I'm sorry to bother you with my emotional mess but I have really no idea where to find better people to evaluate the situation(people irl would be like "just choose one girl and go with her..").
Ok so a little background:
-I'm 19, 2nd year Uni, decent looking(studying engeneering tho I'm top 5% I think, just because other students are complete losers);
-I live in dorm but weekend I usually go back to my parents who live 130 km from me, about 100 miles;
-I have way too many friends and I can't keep up the connections so lately I'm focusing on the quality ones.
In the last two weeks I've had more "success" with girls than in the last year combined(in the eyes of people tho), literally I'm that guy in a small uni that gets new girls(from uni) to make out with him at every party, I kind of got the player title going on..
So at an interesting party I met this girl let's call her Grace (9/10 by my standards) she was with the guys from 1st year(they are my age or older cuz I enrolled earlier), she was most of the time with this very good looking guy(in my mind much better looking than me) and I thought I stood no chances.
Also I was with a girl that I met last week also from uni but she has had a bf for 3 years so nothing serious.
Grace kept giving me glances and I thought it was because I was kind of outstanding, like tallest guy there, most popular and dressed edgy(y'know dark colours, dog tags, white shoes) and I had been the guy in the middle of crowds telling stories and such(I've had quite some crazy experiences).
At one point god only knows why I had some oranges in my hand and Grace makes some jokes about that, we sit togheter on a couch and start talking about bs, soon after I leave her and go back to my friend.
After a while Grace comes back and tells me she doens't want to make my gf feel bad, and I tell her she ain't my gf and the magic starts to happen.. after 5 mins I use the "follow me" from chris and bring here in a spot far from the crowd and we start making out and such, she's like "you're soo good looking, I was staring at you since the beginning of the night".
This was like a starting point in my life where I realized that I'm actually good looking and I can get the really gl girls without "game" or stupid getting to know eachother first.
so that night went very good but some friends were sleeping at her place and we didn't fuck, we didn't get the chance ever since but we've been very dirty in Uni, things like slamming her on a wall and making out in front of everyone and such..
She has caught a little feelings and is a little jealous, I'm completely lost tho I'm in love and I always feel like puking when she doesn't answer my texts and she's very weird over texts but is completely cute irl.
I have no idea what's happening with me..
********************I try to hide it as much as I can but you have to guide me through.*******************
In the meantime I found two other girls in clubs with whom I've made out like crazy but one is in the city where I study only like 2 weeknds a month(we should fuck on monday/tuesday if I go back to uni even if it's closed..)
The other is half brazilian-half Japanese and is crazy over me, it weirds me out, met her last week and I know her whole social circle by now(she's in the city where my parents live), she's also an 8.5/10 by my standards and I didn't think she would give me the light of the day..
Last night we were looking for hotels(she was up to split the booking) but she forgot her ID and we couldn't get a room with mine only...
Tonight we are probably fucking unless I do some stupid shit, she has a ton of feelings already but I don't feel nearly anything and keep thinking about Grace..
TLDR;
-Involved with 3 girls;
-Fell in love with one;
-She's very cold over texts but very warm irl;
-The 3 girls look like sure Lays but still 0;
Should I go with the one I'm in love and get away from the others?
Or should I try and fuck all of them and see what happens?
If you feel like analyzing the situation and spitting some advice I'm up for that too.
I'll spread 20 € on paypal to promote you guys to actually read this Wall of Text.
I know it's not a lot of money, it's more like offering you a beer at a bar.
Thanks and bye!
Ok so a little background:
-I'm 19, 2nd year Uni, decent looking(studying engeneering tho I'm top 5% I think, just because other students are complete losers);
-I live in dorm but weekend I usually go back to my parents who live 130 km from me, about 100 miles;
-I have way too many friends and I can't keep up the connections so lately I'm focusing on the quality ones.
In the last two weeks I've had more "success" with girls than in the last year combined(in the eyes of people tho), literally I'm that guy in a small uni that gets new girls(from uni) to make out with him at every party, I kind of got the player title going on..
So at an interesting party I met this girl let's call her Grace (9/10 by my standards) she was with the guys from 1st year(they are my age or older cuz I enrolled earlier), she was most of the time with this very good looking guy(in my mind much better looking than me) and I thought I stood no chances.
Also I was with a girl that I met last week also from uni but she has had a bf for 3 years so nothing serious.
Grace kept giving me glances and I thought it was because I was kind of outstanding, like tallest guy there, most popular and dressed edgy(y'know dark colours, dog tags, white shoes) and I had been the guy in the middle of crowds telling stories and such(I've had quite some crazy experiences).
At one point god only knows why I had some oranges in my hand and Grace makes some jokes about that, we sit togheter on a couch and start talking about bs, soon after I leave her and go back to my friend.
After a while Grace comes back and tells me she doens't want to make my gf feel bad, and I tell her she ain't my gf and the magic starts to happen.. after 5 mins I use the "follow me" from chris and bring here in a spot far from the crowd and we start making out and such, she's like "you're soo good looking, I was staring at you since the beginning of the night".
This was like a starting point in my life where I realized that I'm actually good looking and I can get the really gl girls without "game" or stupid getting to know eachother first.
so that night went very good but some friends were sleeping at her place and we didn't fuck, we didn't get the chance ever since but we've been very dirty in Uni, things like slamming her on a wall and making out in front of everyone and such..
She has caught a little feelings and is a little jealous, I'm completely lost tho I'm in love and I always feel like puking when she doesn't answer my texts and she's very weird over texts but is completely cute irl.
I have no idea what's happening with me..
********************I try to hide it as much as I can but you have to guide me through.*******************
In the meantime I found two other girls in clubs with whom I've made out like crazy but one is in the city where I study only like 2 weeknds a month(we should fuck on monday/tuesday if I go back to uni even if it's closed..)
The other is half brazilian-half Japanese and is crazy over me, it weirds me out, met her last week and I know her whole social circle by now(she's in the city where my parents live), she's also an 8.5/10 by my standards and I didn't think she would give me the light of the day..
Last night we were looking for hotels(she was up to split the booking) but she forgot her ID and we couldn't get a room with mine only...
Tonight we are probably fucking unless I do some stupid shit, she has a ton of feelings already but I don't feel nearly anything and keep thinking about Grace..
TLDR;
-Involved with 3 girls;
-Fell in love with one;
-She's very cold over texts but very warm irl;
-The 3 girls look like sure Lays but still 0;
Should I go with the one I'm in love and get away from the others?
Or should I try and fuck all of them and see what happens?
If you feel like analyzing the situation and spitting some advice I'm up for that too.
I'll spread 20 € on paypal to promote you guys to actually read this Wall of Text.
I know it's not a lot of money, it's more like offering you a beer at a bar.
Thanks and bye!