Hi guys! My actual name is Joe, but I go by Monsey.
I'm 22 years old and live in NJ.
Goal wise, I want to be able to get laid twice a week. Whether it is from a relationship, fuck buddy or hook up. Since I got out of a relationship I went from 1-2 times a week to once a month (with ex). Specific goal: Have two consistent fuck buddies as friends.
That relationship lasted nearly a year. And before that I was sexless and considered myself un-fuckable. We met at work. Although I was fucking her regularly, deep down inside I thought our meeting was luck and not because of me. It was a fun ride and I don't regret any of it. But now that I’ve gotten laid I can't go back to being sexless.
My goal for 2017 is to instill the confidence in myself that I am worthy of meeting and fucking women. To do this I've been using tinder to set up dates. And I’m going to do the AA program.
My main blockages are:
1) Even though I’ve had sex countless times with my ex, I still view myself as the inexperienced and under sexed guy. I honestly can't picture myself nailing super hot girls. I know experience and time will change this. Tinder and the dates I have been on have helped with this.
2) As an introvert I do great in my own head, but I usually feel awkward in conversation and social situations. Even with close friends. I'm nice to people and get along with most I meet. I'm not socially retarded; I just prefer to keep to myself.
Otherwise I'm happy with myself. I go to the gym regularly, dress decently, and consider myself a problem solver. I've been reading self-improvement stuff for four years. It's helped a ton. I'm past the "work in progress" thinking. I want to start doing.
I think I found GLL on Bold and determined recommendations list. That was a few years ago. While I read a bunch of the articles here, my goal at the time was not to fuck women. I thought of GLL as something to eventually try someday. So here I am.
I'm 22 years old and live in NJ.
Goal wise, I want to be able to get laid twice a week. Whether it is from a relationship, fuck buddy or hook up. Since I got out of a relationship I went from 1-2 times a week to once a month (with ex). Specific goal: Have two consistent fuck buddies as friends.
That relationship lasted nearly a year. And before that I was sexless and considered myself un-fuckable. We met at work. Although I was fucking her regularly, deep down inside I thought our meeting was luck and not because of me. It was a fun ride and I don't regret any of it. But now that I’ve gotten laid I can't go back to being sexless.
My goal for 2017 is to instill the confidence in myself that I am worthy of meeting and fucking women. To do this I've been using tinder to set up dates. And I’m going to do the AA program.
My main blockages are:
1) Even though I’ve had sex countless times with my ex, I still view myself as the inexperienced and under sexed guy. I honestly can't picture myself nailing super hot girls. I know experience and time will change this. Tinder and the dates I have been on have helped with this.
2) As an introvert I do great in my own head, but I usually feel awkward in conversation and social situations. Even with close friends. I'm nice to people and get along with most I meet. I'm not socially retarded; I just prefer to keep to myself.
Otherwise I'm happy with myself. I go to the gym regularly, dress decently, and consider myself a problem solver. I've been reading self-improvement stuff for four years. It's helped a ton. I'm past the "work in progress" thinking. I want to start doing.
I think I found GLL on Bold and determined recommendations list. That was a few years ago. While I read a bunch of the articles here, my goal at the time was not to fuck women. I thought of GLL as something to eventually try someday. So here I am.