I recently started using Tinder and bought the plus. I've got matches and proceeding to try and set up dates. I came across this one girl who agreed to meet me for coffee but first wanted to know what I was looking for. I gave a non-needy, generalized response of "I don't go into meeting someone with any expectations I take things as they come and just like seeing where things go depending on the connection". And then asked her the same.
She responded saying "Dating and potential relationship... not looking for hookups or a sexual relationship". I proceeded to ask what her schedule is and she told me Tuesday and onwards and asked what day works for me.
So my question is whether her response is just a shit test to filter out any thirsty/crazy dudes and she really is actually open to hooking up/sex (since this is Tinder). Or whether she is actually telling the truth and I shouldn't bother wasting my time meeting her. If she wasn't open to something sexual why would she be on Tinder lol ?
She responded saying "Dating and potential relationship... not looking for hookups or a sexual relationship". I proceeded to ask what her schedule is and she told me Tuesday and onwards and asked what day works for me.
So my question is whether her response is just a shit test to filter out any thirsty/crazy dudes and she really is actually open to hooking up/sex (since this is Tinder). Or whether she is actually telling the truth and I shouldn't bother wasting my time meeting her. If she wasn't open to something sexual why would she be on Tinder lol ?