I’ve been on GLL for over a year now and read a fair share of articles here. One of the terms Chris uses often is “undersexed”. I mean that to signify guys who at most have sex with 2-3 girls in their lifetimes and settle down with whatever girl they can get. To quote the lose virginity in 2016 article:
And I’ve also heard somewhere (this might or might not have been on GLL, can't remember) the notion that if you do not get good with women (or somehow are naturally good), you will eventually just get “picked” by some woman and end up being with her (often leading to unhappy/unfulfilled relationship anyways )
However, there is another category of guys who can’t even get laid even ONCE. Probably the kind of guy that article is aimed at, although most guys in their late teens to early twenties don't really fit into this category. These guys don’t even get to be with the typical 2-3 girls most “mediocre” guys seem to hook up with without even trying. And they don't get "picked" either..![:P]( ":P")
These are the guys who go on to be 40 year old virgins, and I’ve even seen a few such cases here on the GLL forums.. I dare say there's been a few such guys in my family (my dad's generation) as well.. full on hermit mode. you could say these guys don't even have any interest in losing their virginity but some do try like Stefan mentioned in the social anxiety article but still get nowhere.
What makes these guys not be able to get what most people achieve just being alive?
“But in terms of 'numbers', not that much divides you from the average non-virgin joe who only sleeps with a handful of girls in his entire life.”
And I’ve also heard somewhere (this might or might not have been on GLL, can't remember) the notion that if you do not get good with women (or somehow are naturally good), you will eventually just get “picked” by some woman and end up being with her (often leading to unhappy/unfulfilled relationship anyways )
However, there is another category of guys who can’t even get laid even ONCE. Probably the kind of guy that article is aimed at, although most guys in their late teens to early twenties don't really fit into this category. These guys don’t even get to be with the typical 2-3 girls most “mediocre” guys seem to hook up with without even trying. And they don't get "picked" either..
These are the guys who go on to be 40 year old virgins, and I’ve even seen a few such cases here on the GLL forums.. I dare say there's been a few such guys in my family (my dad's generation) as well.. full on hermit mode. you could say these guys don't even have any interest in losing their virginity but some do try like Stefan mentioned in the social anxiety article but still get nowhere.
What makes these guys not be able to get what most people achieve just being alive?