Hey GLL Community,
I'm posting here because I want to get more involved in the forum and therefore learn more quickly from my mistakes.
So basically, the situation is that I'm 21 and I'm the bartender of my college. Many chicks dig me because of my status and my looks and it's never a problem of Sex Appeal and coolness. The problem is, everytime I fuck a hot chick in my school (that is a 9 or a 10, the others I never get attached), I start to be super needy even though I try my best to hide it. I usually feel that way after 10-15 days of meeting/fucking the girl. I usually fuck the first night.
Basically, it always goes like that :
First week : girl is all into me and she will come see me at work pretty often, sometimes waiting for me to finish and get fucked.
Second week : total opposite![:unsure:]( ":unsure:")
Reverse situation, I start to be like they want me to be, less of a player and more of a cute guy.
End of second week they stop texting me, kind of ignore me at school so I kind of do the same.
This was before I read about the retention post by Chris, and his other post on female psychology, in which I learned a lot.
So my question is, is there a possible way for the girl to come back and if so, how should I be behaving ?
This week, the chick I fucked for 10 days stopped coming by to get fucked afterwards, avoided me kind of but was still trying to have little jokes with me and we didn't text or really talk. I didn't text either. Having said that, is there a way to get her back as a fuck friend or when it's done it's done ?
I haven't found a post in which it says if the girl can come back after failures like that. Also, I'm seeing other girls at the same time and just trying to retain as a fuckbuddy.
Thanks for reading !
I'm posting here because I want to get more involved in the forum and therefore learn more quickly from my mistakes.
So basically, the situation is that I'm 21 and I'm the bartender of my college. Many chicks dig me because of my status and my looks and it's never a problem of Sex Appeal and coolness. The problem is, everytime I fuck a hot chick in my school (that is a 9 or a 10, the others I never get attached), I start to be super needy even though I try my best to hide it. I usually feel that way after 10-15 days of meeting/fucking the girl. I usually fuck the first night.
Basically, it always goes like that :
First week : girl is all into me and she will come see me at work pretty often, sometimes waiting for me to finish and get fucked.
Second week : total opposite
Reverse situation, I start to be like they want me to be, less of a player and more of a cute guy.End of second week they stop texting me, kind of ignore me at school so I kind of do the same.
This was before I read about the retention post by Chris, and his other post on female psychology, in which I learned a lot.
So my question is, is there a possible way for the girl to come back and if so, how should I be behaving ?
This week, the chick I fucked for 10 days stopped coming by to get fucked afterwards, avoided me kind of but was still trying to have little jokes with me and we didn't text or really talk. I didn't text either. Having said that, is there a way to get her back as a fuck friend or when it's done it's done ?
I haven't found a post in which it says if the girl can come back after failures like that. Also, I'm seeing other girls at the same time and just trying to retain as a fuckbuddy.
Thanks for reading !