Ok I am asking this because these days it seems like I know nothing and because of some really schoolboy fuck ups.
My question is:
Let's say you get 10 numbers from cold approach (or even tinder, doesn't really matter; a number is a number).
1 of them gives you no shit and is eager to meet you and getting her out is no problem at all.
5 of them take ages to answer and when they do they seem aloof to a varying degree, some with emojis, some without. They respond to maybe 50-75% of your messages but ultimately either take 1-2 weeks to get out or you don't get out at all but they don't seem to completely stop messaging you.
4 of them are cold. You haven't deleted their number because occasionally they do respond. But you will be seeing the 'read message' or whatsapp two blue ticks for days. You open them again 3 days later and sometimes they respond but more often than not they don't.
What is the most sensible, productive thing to do?
1) Work on your text game. I genuinely have no idea about this because reading this forum it seems you have the 'game doesn't exist camp' and the 'game somewhat but not majorly' exists camp (the 'game' is all important camp are obviously trolls). I usually keep my texts as short as possible, to try and get her out as soon as possible with maybe 3-4 messages of small talk beforehand.
2) Just delete all numbers that are not 'sure things' and simply approach more girls until you get more 'yes girls' who don't fuck you around
Or something in between? Girls LOVE to play the field thanks to the fact they are inundated with male attention and logically I know the reason girls don't respond is because most likely i am simply not blowing the competition out of the water.
And yes I know I am over-analyzing like always. But these days I really feel like I know nothing. I can get laid with probably too much effort which is why I want to greatly increase productivity and texting is obviously a major part of that.
My question is:
Let's say you get 10 numbers from cold approach (or even tinder, doesn't really matter; a number is a number).
1 of them gives you no shit and is eager to meet you and getting her out is no problem at all.
5 of them take ages to answer and when they do they seem aloof to a varying degree, some with emojis, some without. They respond to maybe 50-75% of your messages but ultimately either take 1-2 weeks to get out or you don't get out at all but they don't seem to completely stop messaging you.
4 of them are cold. You haven't deleted their number because occasionally they do respond. But you will be seeing the 'read message' or whatsapp two blue ticks for days. You open them again 3 days later and sometimes they respond but more often than not they don't.
What is the most sensible, productive thing to do?
1) Work on your text game. I genuinely have no idea about this because reading this forum it seems you have the 'game doesn't exist camp' and the 'game somewhat but not majorly' exists camp (the 'game' is all important camp are obviously trolls). I usually keep my texts as short as possible, to try and get her out as soon as possible with maybe 3-4 messages of small talk beforehand.
2) Just delete all numbers that are not 'sure things' and simply approach more girls until you get more 'yes girls' who don't fuck you around
Or something in between? Girls LOVE to play the field thanks to the fact they are inundated with male attention and logically I know the reason girls don't respond is because most likely i am simply not blowing the competition out of the water.
And yes I know I am over-analyzing like always. But these days I really feel like I know nothing. I can get laid with probably too much effort which is why I want to greatly increase productivity and texting is obviously a major part of that.