Ok, so I met this girl a while back. I managed to get her out, and now I have seen her a total of 3 times not including the pickup.
She has all the signs I look for. Touches me (on occasion), takes my calls, laughs at anything I say and gets those "big eyes". Everything was going well and good until today.
Today we were out, and she was making comments like "what would you do if this didn't work out? would you still speak with me?" or "this is really hanging out, not dating" or "I don't want you to go cold after".
Problem is I didn't go hard at her like have with other girls. In fact, I still haven't even held her hand. Soon as she mentioned this, I started screening. I grabbed her hands heaps, she finds it funny and pulls away. Outside I pulled her in, and she was hard to get into me, and just hugged her.
What should I do? We have been texting and talking daily to every second day. I want her as a possible gf.
I am thinking of going hard next time I see her and force her in or out, then say "that's ok, plenty of other girls" and start dating girls, but keep in contact and tell her about it? Fucking hell.
Young, just turned 20, extremely hot, and yes, I really like her, so I do not want to fuck her off.
I have still been approaching but only for fun. Haven't called or texted any new numbers since.
Help please, guys. I am not after sex, just to see if she would actually date me proper. Don't know how to force it out, and I am scared to ask verbally, as what they say is not always what they are thinking.
Thanks.
She has all the signs I look for. Touches me (on occasion), takes my calls, laughs at anything I say and gets those "big eyes". Everything was going well and good until today.
Today we were out, and she was making comments like "what would you do if this didn't work out? would you still speak with me?" or "this is really hanging out, not dating" or "I don't want you to go cold after".
Problem is I didn't go hard at her like have with other girls. In fact, I still haven't even held her hand. Soon as she mentioned this, I started screening. I grabbed her hands heaps, she finds it funny and pulls away. Outside I pulled her in, and she was hard to get into me, and just hugged her.
What should I do? We have been texting and talking daily to every second day. I want her as a possible gf.
I am thinking of going hard next time I see her and force her in or out, then say "that's ok, plenty of other girls" and start dating girls, but keep in contact and tell her about it? Fucking hell.
Young, just turned 20, extremely hot, and yes, I really like her, so I do not want to fuck her off.
I have still been approaching but only for fun. Haven't called or texted any new numbers since.
Help please, guys. I am not after sex, just to see if she would actually date me proper. Don't know how to force it out, and I am scared to ask verbally, as what they say is not always what they are thinking.
Thanks.