Hey, so I'm on day 5 of the AA program and I'm loving it. I'm looking forward to the drills and having to actually talk to girls I find attractive, even though I'm only asking for the time for now.
My concern is, because I read this post, and in it Chris makes two statements that really made me think about my current action plan.
The first one:
I get where this is coming from and I really want to hold of cold approaching women until I have some confidence and resilience to deal with rejections.
But the second statement:
Since I'm still a virgin, I really don't know what to do now. I'm signed for 5 different dating sites but I feel like it's a tremendous waste of time and I really don't know how to go about losing my virginity and should I even do the AA program now.
My concern is, because I read this post, and in it Chris makes two statements that really made me think about my current action plan.
The first one:
It is also my belief that the vast majority of inexperienced guys have no business "cold approaching" random women in hopes of having sex.
It is my fault if I haven't made that clear.
The odds are very low for inexperienced guys and rejection can be really discouraging if you don't have much confidence. Couple that with approach anxiety and sexual inexperience - it can be a recipe for psychological disaster.
Many guys that get into mainstream "pick up" take longer to lose their virginity because they often 'quit' trying to meet girls altogether after it doesn't go well.
It is my fault if I haven't made that clear.
The odds are very low for inexperienced guys and rejection can be really discouraging if you don't have much confidence. Couple that with approach anxiety and sexual inexperience - it can be a recipe for psychological disaster.
Many guys that get into mainstream "pick up" take longer to lose their virginity because they often 'quit' trying to meet girls altogether after it doesn't go well.
I get where this is coming from and I really want to hold of cold approaching women until I have some confidence and resilience to deal with rejections.
But the second statement:
If you are actually serious about losing your virginity in the most painless way possible -
You Have 2 Simple, Doable Projects This Year -
1.Follow our 'How to Lose Your Virginity Guide' Until You Sleep With a Girl
(Do not start if you are 25+ pounds overweight or underweight)
1.Reach 8-10% Bodyfat and Lose Your Facial Fat Once and For All
If you are a virgin, those are the ONLY things you should have on your agenda until both jobs are done.
You need to be working on one or both every single day.
I repeat -
Those 2 doable projects are all you should focus on until the job is done.
No "beat approach anxiety".
No "fuck 20 women".
No "build a social circle of all these cool friends"
No "build a business".
No "read X number of books".
No "design my dream life that I truly deserve".
No "reach my self-actualization potential".
None of that.
You Have 2 Simple, Doable Projects This Year -
1.Follow our 'How to Lose Your Virginity Guide' Until You Sleep With a Girl
(Do not start if you are 25+ pounds overweight or underweight)
1.Reach 8-10% Bodyfat and Lose Your Facial Fat Once and For All
If you are a virgin, those are the ONLY things you should have on your agenda until both jobs are done.
You need to be working on one or both every single day.
I repeat -
Those 2 doable projects are all you should focus on until the job is done.
No "beat approach anxiety".
No "fuck 20 women".
No "build a social circle of all these cool friends"
No "build a business".
No "read X number of books".
No "design my dream life that I truly deserve".
No "reach my self-actualization potential".
None of that.
Since I'm still a virgin, I really don't know what to do now. I'm signed for 5 different dating sites but I feel like it's a tremendous waste of time and I really don't know how to go about losing my virginity and should I even do the AA program now.