Hey guys.
approaching girls is easy for me now but I believe most girls think that I want to be their boyfriend when I approach them. For example one girl said "I'm sorry but I don't want a boyfriend right now...." or another girl said "Sry I have just met another person", it's really frustrating.
I think the best solution to this would be to throw some sexual things into the conversation a bit, of course it should be ambiguous and not too direct. But I have no clue how to do this. Sometimes when a girl responds back to me on whatsapp I induce sex talk by asking the girl when she had her last boyfriend and then when was the last time she had sex. I did this only with two girls, but they weren't interested I think they just wanted whatsapp "talk buddies".
Here is a plan that I constructed:
I approach as usual "hi I think you are cool, I just wanted to come over and say hi, *shakes hands*" (works almost all the time, never had a refusal of hand shake)
blablabla
blablabla
(about random stuff)
near the end of the conversation I tell her:
"ok look I think you are sexy and I can think about many things that we can do together, we can exchange numbers if you want and text each other for a start"
This would be at least somewhat sexual. I also thought about taking the girls hand before I say this, but I have to get used to this, it's not so easy if you haven't experienced the reactions of the girls yourself.
What do you think about this? Is there any other way how I can avoid this friendzone thing?
approaching girls is easy for me now but I believe most girls think that I want to be their boyfriend when I approach them. For example one girl said "I'm sorry but I don't want a boyfriend right now...." or another girl said "Sry I have just met another person", it's really frustrating.
I think the best solution to this would be to throw some sexual things into the conversation a bit, of course it should be ambiguous and not too direct. But I have no clue how to do this. Sometimes when a girl responds back to me on whatsapp I induce sex talk by asking the girl when she had her last boyfriend and then when was the last time she had sex. I did this only with two girls, but they weren't interested I think they just wanted whatsapp "talk buddies".
Here is a plan that I constructed:
I approach as usual "hi I think you are cool, I just wanted to come over and say hi, *shakes hands*" (works almost all the time, never had a refusal of hand shake)
blablabla
blablabla
(about random stuff)
near the end of the conversation I tell her:
"ok look I think you are sexy and I can think about many things that we can do together, we can exchange numbers if you want and text each other for a start"
This would be at least somewhat sexual. I also thought about taking the girls hand before I say this, but I have to get used to this, it's not so easy if you haven't experienced the reactions of the girls yourself.
What do you think about this? Is there any other way how I can avoid this friendzone thing?