* Where you are from?
Canada. Born and raised in southern Ontario, and I've been living in Montreal for the past 4 years.
* How old are you?
23
* What are your goals? (specific goals- I want to bang # of chicks in 2012)
-Overcome AA
-Gym consistently (3-4 times / week)
-Eliminate anterior pelvic tilt; improve hip and lower back flexibility
-Raise body weight to 160lbs (I am currently ~140 and 6'1").
-Get a girlfriend I can be proud of
* If you could accomplish ONLY ONE THING in the next 12 months. What would it be? (be specific)
I want to be able to make friends and meet people easily without considerable mental effort. This requires getting over AA and developing a more charismatic personality on my part. I'm ambiverted but tend to just settle as an introvert because it requires less effort. I'm going to be moving to a completely new place and different country in September and will have the chance to restart my social life, so I want to be able to do this properly and have a good time doing it too. I think overcoming AA is the most important thing to do in order to achieve my actual goal.
* How long have you been reading self-improvement stuff? Pickup/dating material?
About a year. I haven't really implemented any of it though. I've been mostly looking at reddit /r/seduction and watching a few self-improvement / PUA channels on youtube. I applied some things I read on /r/seduction to get laid a few times in the past year, but other than that have made next to no effort to practice approaching. It was mainly just becoming better at noticing interest and escalating from there.
* What are you main blockages? (if you don't know we'll figure them out)
It's largely mental at this point, because I know that many girls find me attractive and I think I'm pretty decent-looking. A bit underweight but I dress and groom myself well. So the problem is just that I always make excuses. Stupid shit like "I'm not dressed nicely", "I'm not wearing contacts" (I usually wear glasses and think I look better with contacts), "She seems busy", "She's with someone", "I don't want to come off as a creep", etc. I also need to develop better posture/positioning and my body language is mediocre at best.
* What's your experience level, more importantly- what's your dating/sex life been like over the past few years?
I've had two serious long-term girlfriends but my sex life with both of them was very undeveloped and both relationships ended before we had sex. I lost my virginity about a year ago to a girl I teamed up with for a class project. I had started reading /r/seduction a few months before and from that I was able to pick up indicators of interest (that I wouldn't have noticed otherwise) and I escalated with her and finally lost it. Since then I've casually dated 3 different girls and had sex with two of them (the other one I got to third base with). One of them I saw for about a month and the other is currently a friend with benefits who I hang out with once a week and we occasionally (once per month or so) have sex. Of the three girls I've had sex with, two were 5's and one was a 4. The girl I got to third base with was a solid 8/10. My two long-term exes were average (4-5). None of these girls required much effort on my own part, except maybe the 8/10. But she was also just a matter of noticing IOIs and acting upon them. I didn't approach any of them.
+ Where'd you hear/find GoodLookingLoser.com?
reddit.com/r/seduction
Canada. Born and raised in southern Ontario, and I've been living in Montreal for the past 4 years.
* How old are you?
23
* What are your goals? (specific goals- I want to bang # of chicks in 2012)
-Overcome AA
-Gym consistently (3-4 times / week)
-Eliminate anterior pelvic tilt; improve hip and lower back flexibility
-Raise body weight to 160lbs (I am currently ~140 and 6'1").
-Get a girlfriend I can be proud of
* If you could accomplish ONLY ONE THING in the next 12 months. What would it be? (be specific)
I want to be able to make friends and meet people easily without considerable mental effort. This requires getting over AA and developing a more charismatic personality on my part. I'm ambiverted but tend to just settle as an introvert because it requires less effort. I'm going to be moving to a completely new place and different country in September and will have the chance to restart my social life, so I want to be able to do this properly and have a good time doing it too. I think overcoming AA is the most important thing to do in order to achieve my actual goal.
* How long have you been reading self-improvement stuff? Pickup/dating material?
About a year. I haven't really implemented any of it though. I've been mostly looking at reddit /r/seduction and watching a few self-improvement / PUA channels on youtube. I applied some things I read on /r/seduction to get laid a few times in the past year, but other than that have made next to no effort to practice approaching. It was mainly just becoming better at noticing interest and escalating from there.
* What are you main blockages? (if you don't know we'll figure them out)
It's largely mental at this point, because I know that many girls find me attractive and I think I'm pretty decent-looking. A bit underweight but I dress and groom myself well. So the problem is just that I always make excuses. Stupid shit like "I'm not dressed nicely", "I'm not wearing contacts" (I usually wear glasses and think I look better with contacts), "She seems busy", "She's with someone", "I don't want to come off as a creep", etc. I also need to develop better posture/positioning and my body language is mediocre at best.
* What's your experience level, more importantly- what's your dating/sex life been like over the past few years?
I've had two serious long-term girlfriends but my sex life with both of them was very undeveloped and both relationships ended before we had sex. I lost my virginity about a year ago to a girl I teamed up with for a class project. I had started reading /r/seduction a few months before and from that I was able to pick up indicators of interest (that I wouldn't have noticed otherwise) and I escalated with her and finally lost it. Since then I've casually dated 3 different girls and had sex with two of them (the other one I got to third base with). One of them I saw for about a month and the other is currently a friend with benefits who I hang out with once a week and we occasionally (once per month or so) have sex. Of the three girls I've had sex with, two were 5's and one was a 4. The girl I got to third base with was a solid 8/10. My two long-term exes were average (4-5). None of these girls required much effort on my own part, except maybe the 8/10. But she was also just a matter of noticing IOIs and acting upon them. I didn't approach any of them.
+ Where'd you hear/find GoodLookingLoser.com?
reddit.com/r/seduction