Whats up guys,
I have a problem related to my libido and wanted to ask you for advise.
I am in my early 20's and I am VERY rarely in the mood for sex.
Its not that i dont get an errection at all. Until a month ago I was masturbating pretty regulary and got hard doing it. But its like i only get horny when i see porn or when I am already with a girl and we are doing sexual stuff (kissing, foreplay, ...). - and even then its pretty hard to get/maintain an errection.
But its never like i get horny and then look for sex. I do sth sexual (porn, kissing, ...) and THEN I get horny, and also just a little bit.
Two weeks ago i fucked this girl in a club. It took me like 5 or 10 minutes to get hard. I was fingering her and barely got hard, she was sucking me and i barely got hard. After I did some kikny shit like slapping her deepthroating her etc I was able to maintain my errection and have sex with her.
I read a lot about porn and how it is affecting your brain and you are more likely to get ED and similar penis/libido problems. Pretty much one month ago I stopped masturbating. I sometimes get morning wood now and fanasies (again, both rather rarely).
Do you have any suggestions how i can get my libido back? Its really affecting my life because I really want to have sex and I love girls and the whole game of getting them to have sex with you. But the fact that I cant get hard makes me approach less and never push it so hard because i know i probably cant get hard. So i also end up just fingering girls sometimes or not making a move at all. I will stay on no PMO. But is this the way of getting my sexual health back? Is there a way to speed up the process?
Thanks for your help.
And btw.: Even though I am not 100% sure, I so think that my loss of errection came at the time I have used SG. I wore it a lot of the time and also had it on at night. I woke up with morning wood and one day my dick was completly BLUE (at least the tip). I took the device of and never started using it again. Is it possible that my dick just got really fucked up from the blood loss I had from Sizegenetics??? Like I said I am not 100% sure but i think my loss of libido and errection came at the same time.
I have a problem related to my libido and wanted to ask you for advise.
I am in my early 20's and I am VERY rarely in the mood for sex.
Its not that i dont get an errection at all. Until a month ago I was masturbating pretty regulary and got hard doing it. But its like i only get horny when i see porn or when I am already with a girl and we are doing sexual stuff (kissing, foreplay, ...). - and even then its pretty hard to get/maintain an errection.
But its never like i get horny and then look for sex. I do sth sexual (porn, kissing, ...) and THEN I get horny, and also just a little bit.
Two weeks ago i fucked this girl in a club. It took me like 5 or 10 minutes to get hard. I was fingering her and barely got hard, she was sucking me and i barely got hard. After I did some kikny shit like slapping her deepthroating her etc I was able to maintain my errection and have sex with her.
I read a lot about porn and how it is affecting your brain and you are more likely to get ED and similar penis/libido problems. Pretty much one month ago I stopped masturbating. I sometimes get morning wood now and fanasies (again, both rather rarely).
Do you have any suggestions how i can get my libido back? Its really affecting my life because I really want to have sex and I love girls and the whole game of getting them to have sex with you. But the fact that I cant get hard makes me approach less and never push it so hard because i know i probably cant get hard. So i also end up just fingering girls sometimes or not making a move at all. I will stay on no PMO. But is this the way of getting my sexual health back? Is there a way to speed up the process?
Thanks for your help.
And btw.: Even though I am not 100% sure, I so think that my loss of errection came at the time I have used SG. I wore it a lot of the time and also had it on at night. I woke up with morning wood and one day my dick was completly BLUE (at least the tip). I took the device of and never started using it again. Is it possible that my dick just got really fucked up from the blood loss I had from Sizegenetics??? Like I said I am not 100% sure but i think my loss of libido and errection came at the same time.