This piece of advice goes to all guys of minority groups out there, especially those that are more foreign (Asian, Mexican, Indian, and Middle Eastern), who are pushing themselves in the game. The ones who have been hitting the gym, seeing results, applying what GLL says on his blog, and after all that are still not seeing much success. My experiences are only limited to the USA so I cannot say much for other countries, even though I understand that we have quite the bit of international crowd on here.
So if you truly feel like you're in the top 20% of guys from your race, or top 10%, and after all of that are still not seeing results with women then it might not entirely be your fault.
Now I know lots of guys on this forum have a lot of animosity towards guys of minority groups chasing white girls but I have found that "white girls" can also stand for girls of minority groups who have completely assimilated into American culture. For example, a lot of white washed Asian girls who hate Asians and same with Indian and Arab girls who go through that process. In a way, I think that it is important for a guy of a minority group to be able to do well with some of the more attractive white girls because:
1. They're the majority and you will have to deal with them whether you like it or not. The richer you get, the more you run into them here in the USA.
2. Girls of minority groups who want to assimilate into American culture are following them meaning that your typical Asian or Indian girl being raised in the USA is going after almost the same kinds of guys as her white friends are. I have known a few cases to where Asian and Indian girls who normally wouldn't go for men of their own race changed their minds because that Asian or Indian guy could pull cute white girls.
But here you are trucking along and still not seeing results with cute girls.
Well, here is the truth that no one wants to accept but has to accept, your location might be screwing you over.
After living in various parts of the USA, I have found that in some areas it is not that out of the ordinary to see a cute white girl with a guy of a minority group. On the other hand there are also parts of the USA (even some major cities, Atlanta is a good example) where a cute white girl with a guy of a certain minority group will turn a lot of heads because men of that minority group have a low status in that area.
I have found that it isn't one size fits all either for guys of minority groups, it differs. For example, black guys might do amazing in a place like California while Asian, Indian, and most non-black guys of minority groups will often struggle there. On the other hand, I've found that a higher value Asian or Indian dude can absolutely clean up in places like Florida.
See this is the disadvantage of not being white, your location matters that much more compared to some white guy who can do well just about anywhere in the country.
So if you are still struggling after putting in so much work, it might be time to consider a move if you want to have a better sex life.
So if you truly feel like you're in the top 20% of guys from your race, or top 10%, and after all of that are still not seeing results with women then it might not entirely be your fault.
Now I know lots of guys on this forum have a lot of animosity towards guys of minority groups chasing white girls but I have found that "white girls" can also stand for girls of minority groups who have completely assimilated into American culture. For example, a lot of white washed Asian girls who hate Asians and same with Indian and Arab girls who go through that process. In a way, I think that it is important for a guy of a minority group to be able to do well with some of the more attractive white girls because:
1. They're the majority and you will have to deal with them whether you like it or not. The richer you get, the more you run into them here in the USA.
2. Girls of minority groups who want to assimilate into American culture are following them meaning that your typical Asian or Indian girl being raised in the USA is going after almost the same kinds of guys as her white friends are. I have known a few cases to where Asian and Indian girls who normally wouldn't go for men of their own race changed their minds because that Asian or Indian guy could pull cute white girls.
But here you are trucking along and still not seeing results with cute girls.
Well, here is the truth that no one wants to accept but has to accept, your location might be screwing you over.
After living in various parts of the USA, I have found that in some areas it is not that out of the ordinary to see a cute white girl with a guy of a minority group. On the other hand there are also parts of the USA (even some major cities, Atlanta is a good example) where a cute white girl with a guy of a certain minority group will turn a lot of heads because men of that minority group have a low status in that area.
I have found that it isn't one size fits all either for guys of minority groups, it differs. For example, black guys might do amazing in a place like California while Asian, Indian, and most non-black guys of minority groups will often struggle there. On the other hand, I've found that a higher value Asian or Indian dude can absolutely clean up in places like Florida.
See this is the disadvantage of not being white, your location matters that much more compared to some white guy who can do well just about anywhere in the country.
So if you are still struggling after putting in so much work, it might be time to consider a move if you want to have a better sex life.
