Been with girlfriend for 2.5 years, we have traveled together and see each other very regularly.
Random guy from college messaging her a lot which she told me about and claimed "it's annoying."
Last night I picked her up from her friend's house and she was drunk, she passed out in my apartment and her phone was going off.
Checked her phone and it was the guy so I looked at the messages (whether that's ethically right or wrong I did it).
They were texting all night and she invited him to come out, flirty messages about drinking and partying, she sent lots of kisses and said they are good friends and will talk tomorrow.
Obviously a huge red flag because us losers know the guy wants to fuck and girlfriend hasn't shut it down/ignored it.
I'm angry and disappointed but looking to approach this in a civil manner without exhibiting jealousy and acting like an insecure beta male.
Advice? and many thanks.
Random guy from college messaging her a lot which she told me about and claimed "it's annoying."
Last night I picked her up from her friend's house and she was drunk, she passed out in my apartment and her phone was going off.
Checked her phone and it was the guy so I looked at the messages (whether that's ethically right or wrong I did it).
They were texting all night and she invited him to come out, flirty messages about drinking and partying, she sent lots of kisses and said they are good friends and will talk tomorrow.
Obviously a huge red flag because us losers know the guy wants to fuck and girlfriend hasn't shut it down/ignored it.
I'm angry and disappointed but looking to approach this in a civil manner without exhibiting jealousy and acting like an insecure beta male.
Advice? and many thanks.