Hey guys. First and foremost I just wanted to say that I grew up with a really bad social anxiety, which is like really intense shyness. This means Iam "the quiet guy" in my class because I never really talked. I had zero self confidence or social skills. I spent most of my time ALONE browsing the internet, playing video games or reading (I now lift weights regularly now and I now focus on improving my body). I had basically no friends and social life... And I didn't want to be a loner--it's just that I felt painfully awkward and anxious around most people. Especially...cute girls! Iam 18yrs old virgin who had never even kissed a girl. I wasn't super-ugly or weird, it's just that I got REALLY shy, nervous and awkward around girls(I have some physical flaws though I have suffered some face pimples and Im 5'8 skinny guy). I don't know what I should say to a girl I liked to make her attracted. I would sometimes spend hours fantasizing about talking to a girl I liked or imagining what life would be like if she was my girlfriend. How it would feel to touch her hair. To kiss her lips. To lie in bed beside her... And then in real life I would automatically become super quiet and withdrawn around ANY attractive girl.
What do you think guys do you have some advice for a guy like me on how I can fixed myself, tell me how do people like me be able to get a girlfriend and get laid. How do I even fit in and make some friends and just be normal?
What do you think guys do you have some advice for a guy like me on how I can fixed myself, tell me how do people like me be able to get a girlfriend and get laid. How do I even fit in and make some friends and just be normal?