Just wanted to get perspective from the experienced guys in the community.
So i asked this girl i know out for drinks and a "netflix and chill" and she agreed. however,the only 2 days that worked for the both of us based on our schedules was today and saturday. Ended up choosing today because she's busy saturday, but she would have to leave early. Since she told me she had to leave early i figured she wasn't trying to do shit today, so i just told her we can get drinks today and hangout another time. I'd rather not waste my time watching a movie with this chick is nothing is going to come out of it, I might as well create the dynamic at the bar and try to bang on another night where she is more free.
Was this a good or bad choice? Could i have potentially gotten a quickie if i still invited her over? Could i still invite her over at the bar even if she said she would have to leave early? Am i overthinking and should just feel it out and take opportunities like usual?
So i asked this girl i know out for drinks and a "netflix and chill" and she agreed. however,the only 2 days that worked for the both of us based on our schedules was today and saturday. Ended up choosing today because she's busy saturday, but she would have to leave early. Since she told me she had to leave early i figured she wasn't trying to do shit today, so i just told her we can get drinks today and hangout another time. I'd rather not waste my time watching a movie with this chick is nothing is going to come out of it, I might as well create the dynamic at the bar and try to bang on another night where she is more free.
Was this a good or bad choice? Could i have potentially gotten a quickie if i still invited her over? Could i still invite her over at the bar even if she said she would have to leave early? Am i overthinking and should just feel it out and take opportunities like usual?