I wanted to hear your thoughts and need some advice on how you go about deciding if, when and what you would give a girl you're seeing for a birthday gift/present?
Background on particular girl:
Met her off OkCupid, lives on the other end of the city. First date met for coffee at a half way point from where we live for about an hour. Second date met for ice cream close to my place and went for a short walk in the park. Invited her home but she declined as she said it was getting late. Third date invited her straight to my place for a movie and banged with zero resistance. Fourth date was a repeat of the third. Total face time of 2.5-3 hours before the bang.
So she's been commuting about 45-50 mins to my place (one way), very affectionate (initiates cuddling, sex), university educated with a government/high end job, about to get her CPA (accounting) designation, and is around a 8/10 in looks to me.
When I last saw her on Friday night she asked when my birthday is. It's this coming Sunday and coincidently she said hers was this Saturday lol. Last night she initiated to set up the next meet by asking when I'm free this week. So we're going to see each other again on Friday and I suggested to get some burritos to eat at a place close to my place.
By the end of this week we would have known each other for about 3 weeks. I'm not sure if she expects a gift from me. And obviously I don't expect anything from her - just consistent sex/company for the time being.
So I wanted to know how to go about this with this particular girl without possibly hurting her feelings and/or having her show up on Friday with a gift lol?
While I'm asking this it would also be good to know how to handle a presents/gifts to girls in general too where your birthdays don't fall a day apart![:S]( ":S")
And yes I know the "Do what you want" principle but I'm looking specific advice in this situation/what you would do... and that could help with retention without giving unrealistic expectations given the fact that it's only been 3 weeks.
Thanks in advance.
Background on particular girl:
Met her off OkCupid, lives on the other end of the city. First date met for coffee at a half way point from where we live for about an hour. Second date met for ice cream close to my place and went for a short walk in the park. Invited her home but she declined as she said it was getting late. Third date invited her straight to my place for a movie and banged with zero resistance. Fourth date was a repeat of the third. Total face time of 2.5-3 hours before the bang.
So she's been commuting about 45-50 mins to my place (one way), very affectionate (initiates cuddling, sex), university educated with a government/high end job, about to get her CPA (accounting) designation, and is around a 8/10 in looks to me.
When I last saw her on Friday night she asked when my birthday is. It's this coming Sunday and coincidently she said hers was this Saturday lol. Last night she initiated to set up the next meet by asking when I'm free this week. So we're going to see each other again on Friday and I suggested to get some burritos to eat at a place close to my place.
By the end of this week we would have known each other for about 3 weeks. I'm not sure if she expects a gift from me. And obviously I don't expect anything from her - just consistent sex/company for the time being.
So I wanted to know how to go about this with this particular girl without possibly hurting her feelings and/or having her show up on Friday with a gift lol?
While I'm asking this it would also be good to know how to handle a presents/gifts to girls in general too where your birthdays don't fall a day apart
And yes I know the "Do what you want" principle but I'm looking specific advice in this situation/what you would do... and that could help with retention without giving unrealistic expectations given the fact that it's only been 3 weeks.
Thanks in advance.