Hi I'm Joe, and I'm a good looking loser. You can call me Billygoat.
I have moderate approach anxiety and social anxiety but I KNOW I can overcome them, and the time is now.
I'm not after the exact same thing as you, I just want to get my shit together. I don't want to feel fear every time I walk past a hot girl, I want the confidence to approach her, but I'm not looking to get laid as much as possible- I would be happy with 5 girls a year!
I'll tell you a story; I talked to this girl online and I was super honest, forward, aggressively flirtatious, and we got on really well but she was a career woman, working too much to meet up to fuck- she was flying to other countries that week for her job. The next day I felt so confident, her positive reaction showed me I could talk to girls and be honest about what I want and it may not end in humiliation.
The next day I saw three hot blond girls walking down the road towards me and I felt NO fear. I thought "I could rock their world, they'd be lucky to have a guy like me" I had that fundamental mindset shift from "I want them to like me, will they attack me?" to "They will like me, only question is; will I like them? ARE THEY GOOD ENOUGH?". It was the mindset shift to screening. I know I can beat this. The time is now.
I have moderate approach anxiety and social anxiety but I KNOW I can overcome them, and the time is now.
I'm not after the exact same thing as you, I just want to get my shit together. I don't want to feel fear every time I walk past a hot girl, I want the confidence to approach her, but I'm not looking to get laid as much as possible- I would be happy with 5 girls a year!
I'll tell you a story; I talked to this girl online and I was super honest, forward, aggressively flirtatious, and we got on really well but she was a career woman, working too much to meet up to fuck- she was flying to other countries that week for her job. The next day I felt so confident, her positive reaction showed me I could talk to girls and be honest about what I want and it may not end in humiliation.
The next day I saw three hot blond girls walking down the road towards me and I felt NO fear. I thought "I could rock their world, they'd be lucky to have a guy like me" I had that fundamental mindset shift from "I want them to like me, will they attack me?" to "They will like me, only question is; will I like them? ARE THEY GOOD ENOUGH?". It was the mindset shift to screening. I know I can beat this. The time is now.