Hi, Rattrp here, I'm 20, virgin, only ever got a few girls kisses from drunk cold approach at night clubs.
Used to be fat at High school so only ever start talking to girls sexually after done at school, at last year of high school decided to drop weight and lost ~60lb(30kg) but never really got a good confidence level and still struggle a bit to maintain the weight.
I reach out for you guys cause I think my biggest problem is that I can't make others unconfortable, like I try to never disagree with anyone and im always avoiding any type of confrontation.
I have a lot of social anxiety, usually only watch in silence when in a group setting.
I really want to change and overcome this, this is fucking up all areas of my life, not only sex life, really hope that I can make it with the help of the forum, I need more than anything in my life to beat this confrontation fear and don't really know where to start.
* Where you are from? Brazil
* How old are you? 21
* What are your goals? Get rid of social anxiety/fear of confrontation.
* If you could accomplish ONLY ONE THING in the next 12 months. What would it be?Get rid of social anxiety/fear of confrontation.
* How long have you been reading self-improvement stuff? Pickup/dating material? On and off for 3 years
* What are you main blockages? I don't really know
* What's your experience level, more importantly- what's your dating/sex life been like over the past few years? I'm virgin, only got kisses from girls at night clubs while drunk cold approaching.
+ Where'd you hear/find GoodLookingLoser.com? Reddit
Used to be fat at High school so only ever start talking to girls sexually after done at school, at last year of high school decided to drop weight and lost ~60lb(30kg) but never really got a good confidence level and still struggle a bit to maintain the weight.
I reach out for you guys cause I think my biggest problem is that I can't make others unconfortable, like I try to never disagree with anyone and im always avoiding any type of confrontation.
I have a lot of social anxiety, usually only watch in silence when in a group setting.
I really want to change and overcome this, this is fucking up all areas of my life, not only sex life, really hope that I can make it with the help of the forum, I need more than anything in my life to beat this confrontation fear and don't really know where to start.
* Where you are from? Brazil
* How old are you? 21
* What are your goals? Get rid of social anxiety/fear of confrontation.
* If you could accomplish ONLY ONE THING in the next 12 months. What would it be?Get rid of social anxiety/fear of confrontation.
* How long have you been reading self-improvement stuff? Pickup/dating material? On and off for 3 years
* What are you main blockages? I don't really know
* What's your experience level, more importantly- what's your dating/sex life been like over the past few years? I'm virgin, only got kisses from girls at night clubs while drunk cold approaching.
+ Where'd you hear/find GoodLookingLoser.com? Reddit