Hi everyone!
Im Jules and I'm an ok looking loser![:lol:]( ":lol:")
from Germany, 23 years of age.
First I want to say how awesome it is to have found this community and to become a part of it!
I have spend most of my puberty fucking up my otherwise mostly healthy sense of self worth by persuing one hot girl that rejected me several times.
Then had something like a relationship going with another girl for two years before she left me.
I learned a lot after that and realized many of the mistakes I made with her.
Just as I was getting into the whole male-female interaction thing, I met my current girlfriend and slipped into a LTRS without ever really wanting to. Now we are super close since about 4 years and I really enjoy her character and the company of her and her family, which are super chill people.
Only problem: There is literally no sex life anymore.
Right now I'm in a different city for college and only see her on the weekends.
I feel like I lost most of my confidence around women, especially because for the bigger part of my adolecent life I have been indulging in jerking to femdom porn quite a lot. Already made some progress with nofap, but walking arround in a city full of nice girls without beeing able to approach them confidently due to AA is just torture.
So I am commiting to this program and promise to myself to do all the drills.
Again, happy to be here! What are your thoughts on my situation? Any tips for my journey?
Let me know!
Im Jules and I'm an ok looking loser
from Germany, 23 years of age.First I want to say how awesome it is to have found this community and to become a part of it!
I have spend most of my puberty fucking up my otherwise mostly healthy sense of self worth by persuing one hot girl that rejected me several times.
Then had something like a relationship going with another girl for two years before she left me.
I learned a lot after that and realized many of the mistakes I made with her.
Just as I was getting into the whole male-female interaction thing, I met my current girlfriend and slipped into a LTRS without ever really wanting to. Now we are super close since about 4 years and I really enjoy her character and the company of her and her family, which are super chill people.
Only problem: There is literally no sex life anymore.
Right now I'm in a different city for college and only see her on the weekends.
I feel like I lost most of my confidence around women, especially because for the bigger part of my adolecent life I have been indulging in jerking to femdom porn quite a lot. Already made some progress with nofap, but walking arround in a city full of nice girls without beeing able to approach them confidently due to AA is just torture.
So I am commiting to this program and promise to myself to do all the drills.
Again, happy to be here! What are your thoughts on my situation? Any tips for my journey?
Let me know!