[Days 1-4]
Hey guys,
I've just completed the first drill and figured I'd post here about my experience.
I'm a pretty socially calibrated person - I know what to say and how to say, but I haven't gotten the mindset internalized (i.e. I do not naturally react the way I want in social situations, mostly due to anxiety). I'll be entering my second year of college next year, and after a sexless first year I am looking to make a change. Sex, however, is not really my top priority - my social anxiety holds me back in platonic and work situations as well - I don't have any new friends and I often don't have the balls to communicate my ideas effectively in a team environment. In general, I've always had an inferiority complex and very little entitlement. Hopefully by the end of this program that will change.
I was pretty confident going into the first drill - I hit up my college campus and followed Chris' advice and got in there fast, asking the first girl I saw, as she was crossing a crosswalk that was about to turn red. She actually had headphones in, and looked back at me as she kept walking to give me the time. Overall I performed well on the first approach. Things got difficult for me between the first and second approach however - I started hesitating and trying to find girls who were relatively isolated because I was worried about what others would think. It took over 20 minutes for me to ask the next girl, despite the fact that I passed at least 10 candidates in between. The 2nd girl was chilling in a hammock in the park area of campus and was very warm and receptive - I think I sounded slightly nervous approaching her because she was pretty cute. After that the ball got rolling, and I hit up the last 3 girls in the span of about 2 minutes (and all of them were cute). On my last rep, I even approaching 2 girls walking together. Overall a pretty good day and I felt good completing the drill - looking forward to tomorrow. The whole thing took about 45 minutes.
Attached to this post are photos from my Tinder profile - they are all from high school - I have a little more muscle now and my hair is longer. Don't really have a bio and haven't had much success on Tinder so far (I currently only have 3 matches queued up). Hmu with any advice.
Hey guys,
I've just completed the first drill and figured I'd post here about my experience.
I'm a pretty socially calibrated person - I know what to say and how to say, but I haven't gotten the mindset internalized (i.e. I do not naturally react the way I want in social situations, mostly due to anxiety). I'll be entering my second year of college next year, and after a sexless first year I am looking to make a change. Sex, however, is not really my top priority - my social anxiety holds me back in platonic and work situations as well - I don't have any new friends and I often don't have the balls to communicate my ideas effectively in a team environment. In general, I've always had an inferiority complex and very little entitlement. Hopefully by the end of this program that will change.
I was pretty confident going into the first drill - I hit up my college campus and followed Chris' advice and got in there fast, asking the first girl I saw, as she was crossing a crosswalk that was about to turn red. She actually had headphones in, and looked back at me as she kept walking to give me the time. Overall I performed well on the first approach. Things got difficult for me between the first and second approach however - I started hesitating and trying to find girls who were relatively isolated because I was worried about what others would think. It took over 20 minutes for me to ask the next girl, despite the fact that I passed at least 10 candidates in between. The 2nd girl was chilling in a hammock in the park area of campus and was very warm and receptive - I think I sounded slightly nervous approaching her because she was pretty cute. After that the ball got rolling, and I hit up the last 3 girls in the span of about 2 minutes (and all of them were cute). On my last rep, I even approaching 2 girls walking together. Overall a pretty good day and I felt good completing the drill - looking forward to tomorrow. The whole thing took about 45 minutes.
Attached to this post are photos from my Tinder profile - they are all from high school - I have a little more muscle now and my hair is longer. Don't really have a bio and haven't had much success on Tinder so far (I currently only have 3 matches queued up). Hmu with any advice.