I've researched PUA stuff in the past, but hit stumbling blocks and never worked through them. I decided that this time I try needs to be different, and needs to be for good. Skip to the bottom for a one-sentence summary of me if you're lazy.
Where I'm from: western New York State, in a somewhat rural area
My age: 31
My goals in 2016:
Women-related: (1.) I want to bang a different girl in each month of this year (or bang at least 10 girls). (2.) I want to hook up with a girl I don't know at my cousin's wedding in July. (3.) I want to bang a scene-girl (i.e. emo, goth, or steampunk). Not into those scenes myself, but the girls in them always seem to be exotic-looking, which I like, and I get the impression that they're freaks. (4.) I want a bigger dick.
(Sort of) Not-Women-related: (1.) I want to make $80,000 this year. (Totally arbitrary number, but gotta pick something in order to call it a goal.) (2.) I want to run a 5k in under 17:00 (not arbitrary; I know it'll be tough). (3.) I want a totally flat front (no belly or gut at all).
If I could only do one thing in the next 12 months: ...I'd hook up with a girl who is actually pretty, and actually has a decent body (not plump).
My history with self-improvement: I dabbled in researching 'game' since 2003, and have researched the systems/materials of 6 different PUA gurus. I was really serious about it in 2012, but didn't stick with it, for reasons discussed next paragraph in "blockages." 2012 was also the year I started running consistently, and haven't stopped since. I also like researching nutrition and supplements, and am kind of addicted to finding ways to improve myself these days.
Main blockages: (1.) Approach anxiety. I don't have a problem with the act of physically walking over to a girl, but rarely do I ever do this, because all too often I can't think of something to say, or a routine to run. Despite this, I've had far better success in-person than online, and prefer in-person. (2.) Money. I'm still living with my parents to keep expenses down to pay off ridiculous student loans from my useless degree. This also creates (3.) lack of 'extraction location,' (4.) difficulty finding women because I'm in a rural area, and (5.) problems DHVing and creating 'comfort' with women because I don't have the money to go places and create cool memories & stories anymore (now that I'm long out of college). (6.) Height. I'm 5'5". (7.) Gray hair. I'm only 31, but I seem to be going gray way faster than I should, and I'm increasingly self-conscious about it.
Sexual experience: I have used several professional companions to get me through tough times (pathetic, I know), but I've only been with 6 girls who weren't 'professional.' I've had one girlfriend in my life -- it lasted 3 months, but we still talk. I had an excellent just-got-lucky experience 2 Decembers ago with a girl who was drunk and hitting on me in a bar. However, that was the last time I had sex, and it was more than a year ago.
How I found Good-Looking Loser: On a forum about running that I read, somebody posted a link to GLL's video on how to pick up a girl by stealing her shopping cart. I checked out some more videos and noticed that GLL really does treat approach anxiety better than the other gurus, so I checked out the website.
So that's me. I live in a rural area, I'm currently poor but working on it, I like to run, and I want to learn how to be a natural when it comes to thinking up what to say to women.
Where I'm from: western New York State, in a somewhat rural area
My age: 31
My goals in 2016:
Women-related: (1.) I want to bang a different girl in each month of this year (or bang at least 10 girls). (2.) I want to hook up with a girl I don't know at my cousin's wedding in July. (3.) I want to bang a scene-girl (i.e. emo, goth, or steampunk). Not into those scenes myself, but the girls in them always seem to be exotic-looking, which I like, and I get the impression that they're freaks. (4.) I want a bigger dick.
(Sort of) Not-Women-related: (1.) I want to make $80,000 this year. (Totally arbitrary number, but gotta pick something in order to call it a goal.) (2.) I want to run a 5k in under 17:00 (not arbitrary; I know it'll be tough). (3.) I want a totally flat front (no belly or gut at all).
If I could only do one thing in the next 12 months: ...I'd hook up with a girl who is actually pretty, and actually has a decent body (not plump).
My history with self-improvement: I dabbled in researching 'game' since 2003, and have researched the systems/materials of 6 different PUA gurus. I was really serious about it in 2012, but didn't stick with it, for reasons discussed next paragraph in "blockages." 2012 was also the year I started running consistently, and haven't stopped since. I also like researching nutrition and supplements, and am kind of addicted to finding ways to improve myself these days.
Main blockages: (1.) Approach anxiety. I don't have a problem with the act of physically walking over to a girl, but rarely do I ever do this, because all too often I can't think of something to say, or a routine to run. Despite this, I've had far better success in-person than online, and prefer in-person. (2.) Money. I'm still living with my parents to keep expenses down to pay off ridiculous student loans from my useless degree. This also creates (3.) lack of 'extraction location,' (4.) difficulty finding women because I'm in a rural area, and (5.) problems DHVing and creating 'comfort' with women because I don't have the money to go places and create cool memories & stories anymore (now that I'm long out of college). (6.) Height. I'm 5'5". (7.) Gray hair. I'm only 31, but I seem to be going gray way faster than I should, and I'm increasingly self-conscious about it.
Sexual experience: I have used several professional companions to get me through tough times (pathetic, I know), but I've only been with 6 girls who weren't 'professional.' I've had one girlfriend in my life -- it lasted 3 months, but we still talk. I had an excellent just-got-lucky experience 2 Decembers ago with a girl who was drunk and hitting on me in a bar. However, that was the last time I had sex, and it was more than a year ago.
How I found Good-Looking Loser: On a forum about running that I read, somebody posted a link to GLL's video on how to pick up a girl by stealing her shopping cart. I checked out some more videos and noticed that GLL really does treat approach anxiety better than the other gurus, so I checked out the website.
So that's me. I live in a rural area, I'm currently poor but working on it, I like to run, and I want to learn how to be a natural when it comes to thinking up what to say to women.