Getting over the fact that your college days sucked and enjoying life after - by: Lasttrybern

I guess this is very relevant to me as my college career has been one giant mess socially. Never had any luck with girls in college, little to no luck with the cool kids that go to the nicest parties, never invited to any formals by sororities, and it's just been a giant mess. Sometimes, I would go to events with people I thought were my events and I was largely ignored, it was depressing.

My college experience has been one giant nightmare. Going to a "party school" and never actually getting to be a part of that social scene.

The thing is that I feel like deep down I was pathetic for not being "the man" in a time of my life when I was around so many people my own age who hardly had much of a care in the world. I also feel like as I hit the real world, nothing I can do then will rival the social experiences that the cool kids in college were having.

It really depresses the hell out of me at times about the future, knowing that no matter what I do there, it will be lackluster compared to what a kid in college is experiencing. Like I will never have the chance to make so many fun friends, date so many hot girls, and get that status after college that these kids had in college.

So...

How can guys like me (and I know I am not the only one out there) get over their shitty college experience and just move on to live a fulfilling life?