I met her in tinder and she seemed into me (asking me to add her to facebook, starting conversations, etc.), however i'm trying to set a date with her for a week and a half and she keeps postponing.
Anyway she now told me she doesn't wanna cancel again so she'd text me when she's free and will try to meet up spontaneously same day. I dislike it because the ball is in her field and, honestly, it's not the woman's job to be active and I doubt shell do it..
Here are optons I could think of (if you have others than they'd be welcome):
1. "sure but probably i won't be able to come if you set same day" (maybe itll make her less afraid if she thinks its anyway gonna be canceled?)
2. "sure just can you tell me roughly when so itll be easier for me to prepare"
3. "sure" and then remind her im alive once a week saying "whats up"
4. "its problematic because I probably will not be able to come if you set same day" and then try to make a date that shell probably postpone too...
5. "sure just don't let this fade away"
anyway my point is however that this girl is very anxious i can see it on her, so I dont wanna pressure her.. And i also like this girl so it's important to me.
Anyway she now told me she doesn't wanna cancel again so she'd text me when she's free and will try to meet up spontaneously same day. I dislike it because the ball is in her field and, honestly, it's not the woman's job to be active and I doubt shell do it..
Here are optons I could think of (if you have others than they'd be welcome):
1. "sure but probably i won't be able to come if you set same day" (maybe itll make her less afraid if she thinks its anyway gonna be canceled?)
2. "sure just can you tell me roughly when so itll be easier for me to prepare"
3. "sure" and then remind her im alive once a week saying "whats up"
4. "its problematic because I probably will not be able to come if you set same day" and then try to make a date that shell probably postpone too...
5. "sure just don't let this fade away"
anyway my point is however that this girl is very anxious i can see it on her, so I dont wanna pressure her.. And i also like this girl so it's important to me.