Hey Guys,
I just turned 19 and got my girlfriend (the girl I lost my virginity with) 5 months ago.
We only see each other 2 days a week and have great sex.
I had ED problems and she helped me overcome it (with staying with my while I tried and tried again until I got cialis - magic! )
The problem is that I am always thinking about fucking other girls and even seriously consider it.
I am doing nofap/noporn right now. When I watched porn the positive thing was that my mind was thinking I were fucking other girls (and it made my mind satisfied) but I felt the ED coming back so I stoped watching porn once and for all.
It makes me really sad and stressed out because I basically have to break her heart:
1) I end the relationship, but I cant say a reason because she did everything right.
2) I go after other girls while I am in the relationship which would also break her heart.
I would love to have both. A relationship with constant sex and some side girls.
Does anyone feel the same? What would you suggest me to do?
Side question: Of cause I dont think of marrying a girl right now but for those who are married: Do you still feel the need to fuck other girls? Deep in your heart? If you see a girl in yogapants on the street do you think: "Damn, I want to fuck her."?
Is it even possible for men (and woman) to stay commited to each other over a long period of time (without having to suppress their feelings)?
I just turned 19 and got my girlfriend (the girl I lost my virginity with) 5 months ago.
We only see each other 2 days a week and have great sex.
I had ED problems and she helped me overcome it (with staying with my while I tried and tried again until I got cialis - magic! )
The problem is that I am always thinking about fucking other girls and even seriously consider it.
I am doing nofap/noporn right now. When I watched porn the positive thing was that my mind was thinking I were fucking other girls (and it made my mind satisfied) but I felt the ED coming back so I stoped watching porn once and for all.
It makes me really sad and stressed out because I basically have to break her heart:
1) I end the relationship, but I cant say a reason because she did everything right.
2) I go after other girls while I am in the relationship which would also break her heart.
I would love to have both. A relationship with constant sex and some side girls.
Does anyone feel the same? What would you suggest me to do?
Side question: Of cause I dont think of marrying a girl right now but for those who are married: Do you still feel the need to fuck other girls? Deep in your heart? If you see a girl in yogapants on the street do you think: "Damn, I want to fuck her."?
Is it even possible for men (and woman) to stay commited to each other over a long period of time (without having to suppress their feelings)?