Hi guys,
Been working a lot on quite a lot of things for myself. Both meeting women and otherwise.
I'm in a position where I've been seeing 2 girls. I actually like both. It's not serious with either, both new, met them around the same time. I'll be honest in that either of them have potential to be more than FWB. I'm actually enjoying seeing both. Still early though so trying to keep cool about it. That's where my mind wanders though. I'm not often in this position. Feels good but also sort of wrecking my head.
To put it in perspective. I grew up in a smaller town. Where everyone knows everyone to a certain degree. Seeing multiple people wasn't the done thing nor really possible sonce you'd more than likely run into the other girl or at least someone she knew if you went out with another girl. Lame I know, but small town.
I live in a major city now. I know dating around is "normal" and girls especially will have a few guys on the go at one time. I'm trying to get used to it is all. I think it's easier when I see someone as fwb. We meet occasionally and don't talk much in between. This is a little different as I'm enjoying seeing both and want to see where it goes but finding it difficult to manage setting dates and keeping my mind calm like I'm not doing something wrong. Yeah, I know that's lame, but as I said. Small town thinking is probably still in back of my head.
Been working a lot on quite a lot of things for myself. Both meeting women and otherwise.
I'm in a position where I've been seeing 2 girls. I actually like both. It's not serious with either, both new, met them around the same time. I'll be honest in that either of them have potential to be more than FWB. I'm actually enjoying seeing both. Still early though so trying to keep cool about it. That's where my mind wanders though. I'm not often in this position. Feels good but also sort of wrecking my head.
To put it in perspective. I grew up in a smaller town. Where everyone knows everyone to a certain degree. Seeing multiple people wasn't the done thing nor really possible sonce you'd more than likely run into the other girl or at least someone she knew if you went out with another girl. Lame I know, but small town.
I live in a major city now. I know dating around is "normal" and girls especially will have a few guys on the go at one time. I'm trying to get used to it is all. I think it's easier when I see someone as fwb. We meet occasionally and don't talk much in between. This is a little different as I'm enjoying seeing both and want to see where it goes but finding it difficult to manage setting dates and keeping my mind calm like I'm not doing something wrong. Yeah, I know that's lame, but as I said. Small town thinking is probably still in back of my head.