Hey guys, I first noticed gll about a year ago and was in complete denial about my approach anxiety (AA). I'm somewhat more socially free than my friends and I did approach about ten girls, but with time I've finally accepted my AA. In the past month, I haven't been able to approach like 90% of the girls I wanted to and the ones I have I've been in and out because I got too anxious. So I'm pissed off and here to kill AA!
I'm 22 years old and from California. To be honest, I really don't care about banging tons of chicks; I do want to go on a ton of dates (let's say 100), because I don't want to be like average guys who's desperate and gets serious with the first girl (probably not that high quality, looks or personality) who likes him and stays with her for four years because he probably can't get another one. I want to know that the girlfriend I get is the one I chose not just the first girl who comes along and likes me.
If I could only accomplish one thing in the next 12 months... it would be a nobel prize in physics haha. But on gll terms, the one thing I really want to accomplish in the next 12 months is the ability to approach any girl I want without anxiety, on the less tangible side, on the more concrete side I would say to have a high quality girlfriend (someone I'm actually attracted to and has a hot personality).
I've been reading self-improvement (pickup/dating) for a little under a year. My main blockage is time; everything was going great with gll (approached ~5 girls in a week) until classes started and I started working 70+ hours a week. I'm still/always going to be time limited but I found out a few months ago that I can accomplish what I consider non-negotiable (I made that going to the gym, and I've been going 3 days a week for 8 weeks now, with only three missed gym days). I got nervous during an approach on Friday with a girl who was actually really hot and interested in me. That pissed me off. I'm making the AA program my non-negotiable thing until I kill AA.
As you might have guessed if you've read the above, my experience level is low/zero. I've never had a girlfriend, I've gone on 3 dates (and a few others I didn't realize were dates until later haha), all in the last year, and have never made out with a girl (let alone more than that).
I heard about gll from some other approach women website giving a shoutout. I can't remember which it was any more but I think I found it when looking for tinder advice.
I'm 22 years old and from California. To be honest, I really don't care about banging tons of chicks; I do want to go on a ton of dates (let's say 100), because I don't want to be like average guys who's desperate and gets serious with the first girl (probably not that high quality, looks or personality) who likes him and stays with her for four years because he probably can't get another one. I want to know that the girlfriend I get is the one I chose not just the first girl who comes along and likes me.
If I could only accomplish one thing in the next 12 months... it would be a nobel prize in physics haha. But on gll terms, the one thing I really want to accomplish in the next 12 months is the ability to approach any girl I want without anxiety, on the less tangible side, on the more concrete side I would say to have a high quality girlfriend (someone I'm actually attracted to and has a hot personality).
I've been reading self-improvement (pickup/dating) for a little under a year. My main blockage is time; everything was going great with gll (approached ~5 girls in a week) until classes started and I started working 70+ hours a week. I'm still/always going to be time limited but I found out a few months ago that I can accomplish what I consider non-negotiable (I made that going to the gym, and I've been going 3 days a week for 8 weeks now, with only three missed gym days). I got nervous during an approach on Friday with a girl who was actually really hot and interested in me. That pissed me off. I'm making the AA program my non-negotiable thing until I kill AA.
As you might have guessed if you've read the above, my experience level is low/zero. I've never had a girlfriend, I've gone on 3 dates (and a few others I didn't realize were dates until later haha), all in the last year, and have never made out with a girl (let alone more than that).
I heard about gll from some other approach women website giving a shoutout. I can't remember which it was any more but I think I found it when looking for tinder advice.