I have been going through some rough shit in my life and I broke down two times and because of that I've been labeled as a depressed guy. This has absolutely killed my reputation and we all know how much reputation matters in college.
Basically what happened is that at a sorority date party I broke down in tears and was angry at my then girlfriend at the time. My mom was the emergency room the night before and during the date party my girlfriend was hitting on other guys and making comments about my height.
Now in the aftermath, I admitted that I was wrong to my ex through text and I said that I was in a very bad place. Obviously she gets away scot free with no wrongdoing because it was sorority date party.
Now obviously I should not have reacted by crying and I will never do that again. Ever.
But the thing is I can't really focus on my school work here because of my bad, undeserved rep. Even before I met my girlfriend many girls have already told her that this guy is damaged goods (depressed) etc.
Now look that is the case I did take a semester off because of family issues. However, with that being said in the past year I have not really been depressed at all and all new girls who do not have any prior impression of me think I am a really cool guy.
Unfortunately this baggage is wrecking my social life. I mean honestly everyone who meets me these days thinks I am a cool guy. Then they hear some bullshit from someone else and believe it.
I have only one year left here and I am studying at a top school so I don't want to transfer out. However, I am honestly getting bitter because none of the work I am putting in is getting me results.
I am shredded, have a great game and good grooming but it is all put to waste because I am labeled as a guy with mental issues (which I do not have).
I see phaggots on facebook constantly whining and posting sob stories and getting tons of likes. I need to get more likes on my facebook (right now I am at 100 and I want 200) but I am not willing to post pussy sob stories or anything.
The way I acted at that date party is not how I usually act. I did not tell anyone that my mother was in the emergency room however, looking back at it I should have told them when they asked me why I was crying.
I hate the way things are turning out right now and I need a "fix" for this situation.
I gotta market my social media right to fix this garbage.
Here is what I have going for me and here is what I don't:
I am a good athlete and I bench 325 and deadlift 605.
I am a straight a student, very professional, (described as a chill guy (by people that I've meet since I've changed myself in the past year).
I am very well dressed with great grooming and hygiene
Here is what I don't have going for me:
I am 5'8 barefoot and although I wear lifts to bring me up I am still short on the campus (my school is a d1 school in the pac12 most guys are 6' or over).
Now with all of this being said, I need a gameplan to fix my rep the best I can (I know that I will never have a standout rep because of the prior bullshit but I need some help). Ideally I would just transfer out and I should have done that after my first year but now I can't really do that.
I've already read all the redpill books about game and social status et cetera.
But that information doesn't really help me here. I need to solve shit and fast because honestly this bad rep is really getting to my head and preventing me from focusing on my grades.
I mean I know that most people in college are worried about their own shit. But I am a successful guy so a lot of people like to hate on me since they have an easy option to (the bad rep).
Basically what happened is that at a sorority date party I broke down in tears and was angry at my then girlfriend at the time. My mom was the emergency room the night before and during the date party my girlfriend was hitting on other guys and making comments about my height.
Now in the aftermath, I admitted that I was wrong to my ex through text and I said that I was in a very bad place. Obviously she gets away scot free with no wrongdoing because it was sorority date party.
Now obviously I should not have reacted by crying and I will never do that again. Ever.
But the thing is I can't really focus on my school work here because of my bad, undeserved rep. Even before I met my girlfriend many girls have already told her that this guy is damaged goods (depressed) etc.
Now look that is the case I did take a semester off because of family issues. However, with that being said in the past year I have not really been depressed at all and all new girls who do not have any prior impression of me think I am a really cool guy.
Unfortunately this baggage is wrecking my social life. I mean honestly everyone who meets me these days thinks I am a cool guy. Then they hear some bullshit from someone else and believe it.
I have only one year left here and I am studying at a top school so I don't want to transfer out. However, I am honestly getting bitter because none of the work I am putting in is getting me results.
I am shredded, have a great game and good grooming but it is all put to waste because I am labeled as a guy with mental issues (which I do not have).
I see phaggots on facebook constantly whining and posting sob stories and getting tons of likes. I need to get more likes on my facebook (right now I am at 100 and I want 200) but I am not willing to post pussy sob stories or anything.
The way I acted at that date party is not how I usually act. I did not tell anyone that my mother was in the emergency room however, looking back at it I should have told them when they asked me why I was crying.
I hate the way things are turning out right now and I need a "fix" for this situation.
I gotta market my social media right to fix this garbage.
Here is what I have going for me and here is what I don't:
I am a good athlete and I bench 325 and deadlift 605.
I am a straight a student, very professional, (described as a chill guy (by people that I've meet since I've changed myself in the past year).
I am very well dressed with great grooming and hygiene
Here is what I don't have going for me:
I am 5'8 barefoot and although I wear lifts to bring me up I am still short on the campus (my school is a d1 school in the pac12 most guys are 6' or over).
Now with all of this being said, I need a gameplan to fix my rep the best I can (I know that I will never have a standout rep because of the prior bullshit but I need some help). Ideally I would just transfer out and I should have done that after my first year but now I can't really do that.
I've already read all the redpill books about game and social status et cetera.
But that information doesn't really help me here. I need to solve shit and fast because honestly this bad rep is really getting to my head and preventing me from focusing on my grades.
I mean I know that most people in college are worried about their own shit. But I am a successful guy so a lot of people like to hate on me since they have an easy option to (the bad rep).