Starting to realize I have no true friends and loving family members.
Not a kid in college anymore and around this time I noticed how people in my family started treating me. For example, talking sh*t under their breath is really common with someone in my family or a guy who I thought was one of my best buddies. They would emphasize on what they think my flaws are under their breath.
With family:
- not listening to what I say
- not getting my side of story (everyone shows up with stones)
- going on vacations without me
- after they discover I'm not the guilty party, they pretend as if nothing ever happened.
With friends (good guy friend):
- Always taking another's side even if they are trying to abuse me
- Under the breath statements about me and then changes subject
- Restrained joy when I express something that I'm worried about
- Asking me personal questions in front of girls to make me look bad
I have been wondering if I'm a toxic person in general, but I don't think that's the case. My gf, her parents and boss thinks that I'm too good of a person lol that's another input.
But the reason why this bothers me, is because I feel like there's no one on my side (except for my gf and her family), especially when I've been a good friend or family member to them.
More info:
- notice when I join a group of some sort I can experience a lot of hostility, usually people with big egos and lesser attractive women. This applies to the gym, professors, bosses/teams
- I've been told I'm really good looking (I usually just say thanks and move on)
- I'm pretty introverted, so I seem shy (or stuck up I hear to some), but I usually open up well at events and such. So the person will usually hate me on the first impression without me saying a word.
Any feedback would be great.
-W2F
Not a kid in college anymore and around this time I noticed how people in my family started treating me. For example, talking sh*t under their breath is really common with someone in my family or a guy who I thought was one of my best buddies. They would emphasize on what they think my flaws are under their breath.
With family:
- not listening to what I say
- not getting my side of story (everyone shows up with stones)
- going on vacations without me
- after they discover I'm not the guilty party, they pretend as if nothing ever happened.
With friends (good guy friend):
- Always taking another's side even if they are trying to abuse me
- Under the breath statements about me and then changes subject
- Restrained joy when I express something that I'm worried about
- Asking me personal questions in front of girls to make me look bad
I have been wondering if I'm a toxic person in general, but I don't think that's the case. My gf, her parents and boss thinks that I'm too good of a person lol that's another input.
But the reason why this bothers me, is because I feel like there's no one on my side (except for my gf and her family), especially when I've been a good friend or family member to them.
More info:
- notice when I join a group of some sort I can experience a lot of hostility, usually people with big egos and lesser attractive women. This applies to the gym, professors, bosses/teams
- I've been told I'm really good looking (I usually just say thanks and move on)
- I'm pretty introverted, so I seem shy (or stuck up I hear to some), but I usually open up well at events and such. So the person will usually hate me on the first impression without me saying a word.
Any feedback would be great.
-W2F